Just discovered... Daddy is a little ?

[littlelamb]

We have been in a ltr for almost 3 years and we recently married. We are very much best friends, partners and lovers. He has been my poppa since day one ...or six I forget , but pretty soon after establishing a relationship... We open up and found out we shared an interest and he has been my sweet daddy ever since. Our DDlg dynamic is kind,caring,and sexual in nature. We are still learning and have the most open dialogs I've seen amongst people I know. Lately there have been tifs, and scuffles , that always result in positive changes being made, if there's anything we are good at , its eating food...and problem solving !!! We both tend to feel like we are put on the spot when discussing DDlg and until we get into it ... It can be a silent room when both will be scared to make the next move or discussion. I'm scared of initiating, but do.... He's scared of messing up... But gives it his best.

Long story short... Recently /yesterday/ we did this .. And huffs were puffed and confusion was laid and nervousness got the best of us and I went to lay in a quiet room to slow my fears.

As per usual ... He came to talk and console and figure out how to help.

It was a problem of something from his early life inadvertently affecting his confidence and my ability to help.

An hour into talking . . . I layed it out. I took a leap for a mountain I had pushed away thinking it was never the one I though he would take comfort in admitting he was behind.

I moved the mountain... Perhaps crudely , perhaps to his dismay... And found what he let me in on.

Things are about to change !

We haven't figured out the logistics

// A back story on me ... I have had many situations where I was the caretaker in the dynamic of age play. I have no problem assuming that role, tho this , being his lg has been my only dynamic with him .\\

Today is a new day ! Questions :

my little has some fears .. That a kid would have , probably unfounded but still how do I deL with that and be supported when the little girl is a bit confused about when is what and who is who , butbi want to be sensitive to the info my daddy has justventrusyed me with , along with his ego , he is very much a cisman but compassionate and open and not afraid of soft things .

the care taker me is all reared to go .please give any advise or stories

[A Cuddly Dom]

I'm not completely sure I understand your exact situation; some more details might help. The one thing I can't stress enough is communicate openly, and from a loving place. You may take on a caregiver role when he's in little space, or you might find both your little selves like playing and sharing time together. There are a lot of possibilities here, but you both have to talk for a while to work out how your new dynamic will play out. Best wishes!

[Thequeen]

I have to agree with A Cuddly Dom. Your store is a bit confusing but based off the title I would say yes you need to just try to talk and figure it out. If he is a little and you are two, you two can always just date each other. You don't in essence need a mommy or daddy it just is nice. two little's can and do date all the time.

 

If you think you might be a switch and he thinks he might be too then just take the time to talk about what you both want and/or need then try to put it to work. You two will find something that works don't worry if you two are as happy as it seems then just stay calm and trust each other.

 

If you need a friend to talk to anyone on this forum is super nice and helpful in so many ways! Just add and message whoever you want me included if you want. Good luck!

-TheQueen

[littlelamb]

Thank you everyone. Yes we have open dialogue. And we recently completed an age play negotiation form for him and I together .