Daddy/Not daddy? HELP?

[little_girl_lost99]

So I've been dating this guy for quite some time now. He would be the perfect daddy. He tucks me in at night with my stuffies and kisses my forehead with a "goodnight, babygirl". When I have a bad day, he pulls out my favorite pjs, cartoons and some cotton candy. I've never actually told him that I'm a little, because he's expressed more than just distaste for ddlg on more than one occasion. He thinks the term daddy is disgusting in a relationship. This is a problem because I'm very into it. I love him, but I need ddlg. How do I talk to him about it without freaking him out? Not sure if age is relevant, but we're both eighteen.

[Strawberry Sprinkles]

There was a thread similar to this not too long ago today by "little swedish babe."  Click on the link. I really liked what Michael had to say.

Edited October 24, 2016 by Strawberry Sprinkles

[HeCallsMePrincess]

labels are really not important IMO. if he acts like your daddy, be happy with that. also, you're both so very young I can guarantee that tastes will change and what you want and need will change. also, I highly doubt you'll be with him forever.

[Antoinette]

''Not sure if age is relevant'' 

 

It is, it really, really is. Like 'HeCallsMePrincess' said, both of your tastes will change and what you want/need will change too.

 

I have one question though, does he make you happy? If the answer is yes then don't worry. If you really want to call him daddy open him up to it, show him the definition (Google 'daddy' definition and show him the secondary meaning). Just try to break some of the misconceptions he may have.