Switches?

[Antoinette]

Hey guys!

 

I don't often make my own topics, but this has been something I've considered making for a while now. As of late I've been having very caregiver-like feelings. I haven't exerted any of them as I currently have a Daddy (we're not officially together but we are exclusive, it's strictly a DDlg relationship right now, which I am fine with).

 

The thing is, I'm confused - I have always been submissive, right from whenever I had my first ever boyfriend, my first ever sexual feeling. In fact, in the past the idea of being dominant scared me, or made me feel sick. I don't know what it is but I just have this nagging feeling that I want or need a little, I want to take care of a little boy or girl and love them, spoil them etc. things that caregivers do. 

 

This isn't a constant feeling though, it is a fleeting emotion which leads me to believe that I could possibly be a switch. I just don't know what I should do to conquer this craving of wanting a little; or how to figure out if it's just a phase I'm going through.

 

Sorry, guys, I know this is confusing - I just needed the help of the community on this one.

[serioussir]

Its not something you should have to conquer, its just a part of you. Some people switch, some people don't. Its certainly not weird, and I think you shouldn't worry so much. Maybe ask your daddy if he would want to try switching since you are having these feelings? Maybe its a biological desire to have kids and not switching? It could be a lot of things. I would just talk it out, and see where things go.

[Strawberry Sprinkles]

Sometimes I toy with the idea of having a little sister because I want to care for someone Little. It's not a switch thing, persay, as I'd want a head of the household to be someone other than myself. Plus, like you said, its a fleeting thought. The idea of taking care of and doting on someone who appreciates the things I do fills me with a kind of warmth. If it's okay with your Daddy, you could try babysitting other Littles.  A lot of Littles who are Daddy- or Mommy-less seem open to the idea.

Edited October 23, 2016 by Strawberry Sprinkles