Pacifier trouble

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Well, I've never used a pacifier and didn't think it was my thing. But I constantly have to have something in my mouth. Daddy and I both talked about how we thought it was weird when we first realized what this lifestyle was. Well now I just wrote him a note (verbal communication isn't my strong suite) about how I would like to try one. He's reading it now, and I'm very nervous and anxious...

 

If he says yes, I don't know what to get. And either way, I feel like there's a lot of talking to be done...

[LolitasDaddy]

Go out and look at some. Might take a little trial and error to find one that's just right, as there is a fair amount of variation in them.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Is it safe for me to use a regular pacifier or does it have to be an adult one?

[LittleGirlEmilia]

Is it safe for me to use a regular pacifier or does it have to be an adult one?

 

 

No, I used a regular one for 16 years and it messed my teeth up PRETTY BADLY, I had to get braces for two years!! Now I only use them now and again WHICH SUCKS!... So, me and my daddy bought an adult one, it should be here on Monday.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

No, I used a regular one for 16 years and it messed my teeth up PRETTY BADLY, I had to get braces for two years!! Now I only use them now and again WHICH SUCKS!... So, me and my daddy bought an adult one, it should be here on Monday.

Well Daddy went out and bought me regular ones for now. I may invest in an adult one if I find this is something I really like. This is literally my first experience ever with a paci. I used it for a few seconds so far and I think I like it. I dunno. I'm still trying to grasp the fact that it's something I want. I tried to tell Daddy it was just for stress (which that's part of it), but he saw threw it and told me to be honest if it was something I wanted to just say so. I told him it's both and he said he's ok with it.

Edited October 22, 2016 by Daddy's_Babygirl

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

No, I used a regular one for 16 years and it messed my teeth up PRETTY BADLY, I had to get braces for two years!! Now I only use them now and again WHICH SUCKS!... So, me and my daddy bought an adult one, it should be here on Monday.

I've used a baby/toddler sized binkie all my life and my teeth are all fine. I've never had any prombles 

[ziva vlad's kitten]

I LOVE MY PACIFIERS!

 

I didn't think I would like one, but Owner and I talked about it because I kept thinking about it and wondering. He thought I would like it, and that it might help me bite less... And he was right, they do help me bite less.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Well I used mine for a bit last night. I'm afraid to sleep with it in, I'm not sure why. I was having a hard time falling asleep and Daddy wasn't ready for bed yet so I laid down and used it for like 10-15min and it helped.

 

Daddy was asking me why I was so afraid to admit it. I told him "because it's not normal..." and he said "it's better than picking up smoking, drinking, or drugs. Everyone has habits." And I said "those things, other than drugs, are at least normal" and he explained that there is a big difference between normal and socially acceptable. Then he went out while I was in the shower and got me two pacifiers, a lanyard to use as a clip. Just having him do that, without me asking him to get them, made me feel so much better.

[ziva vlad's kitten]

That's true then slowly huge difference between normal and socially acceptable. My mom told me about when I was a toddler and we lived in Germany for a little while, the school age kids there would have pacifiers and they were slightly larger than baby once especially designed for the Elementary kids.

I usually don't sleep with mine but my husband likes it when I do, because I grind my teeth less. I've had dentist try to get me to sleep with a bite gard my mouth, but I can't do it. My dentist was telling me that some people will sleep with a washcloth with the edge of it in there mouth. That's not normal but it can be helpful for some people. I think I would rather sleep with a pacifier.

 

https://www.amazon.com/Space-Princess-nipple-Glows-dark/dp/B00Z7T2Z5W/ref=pd_rhf_se_p_img_1?ie=UTF8&refRID=TDR08622BM2W6P23036S&th=1

 

That's a link for my favorite one I have, the picture on mine is different, but other than that it's the same.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I may end up with an adult one... right now the cost is what's holding me back, since I'm not even sure if it's something I'm going to be into long term or not. Plus Daddy isn't sure if it'll bother him or not but he doesn't think so. So for now I have larger Nuk ones.

 

I'm actually still a little nervous to use it in front of Daddy, even though he got me it. I just felt overwhelmed and left the room to us it.

Edited October 22, 2016 by Daddy's_Babygirl

[Guest Sexycurvyprincess]

I may end up with an adult one... right now the cost is what's holding me back, since I'm not even sure if it's something I'm going to be into long term or not. Plus Daddy isn't sure if it'll bother him or not but he doesn't think so. So for now I have larger Nuk ones.

 

I'm actually still a little nervous to use it in front of Daddy, even though he got me it. I just felt overwhelmed and left the room to us it.

That's understandable. I never really use paci's in front of a Daddy unless I know they prefer younger littles or if I'm incredibly comfortable with them. It just takes time to be able to open up some more. If you get overwhelmed, maybe ask him about it. 

             

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

That's understandable. I never really use paci's in front of a Daddy unless I know they prefer younger littles or if I'm incredibly comfortable with them. It just takes time to be able to open up some more. If you get overwhelmed, maybe ask him about it.

He says it doesn't bother him. We have been together 4 1/2yrs but just getting into DDlg, although we've kinda always just done the lifestyle and didn't know it. I just don't want him to look down on me over it.

[Guest Sexycurvyprincess]

If he looks down on you, That's not ok. You can't look down on someone for something you said is fine.

However, that's just my opinion.

I personally think if he loves you, he'll accept you and adore you, paci and all.

[ziva vlad's kitten]

It's ok to be unsure. You want to do what's best for the 2 of you, and sometimes new things are scary because you can't know how it will turn out until after you have already put yourself out there.

But don't forget, after 4 2/1 years I am sure there are hard things you have worked through and your love won.

I bet this is not something he would look down on you for, you already have his love. If you find out you really like it, he might even decide its cute.

Edited October 23, 2016 by little ziva