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Does anyone else have a problem with attention withdrawals or is it just this weird thing I'm dealing with?

Guest JessTuesday
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I need constant attention. It feels like the world is caving in when I don't get the attention I need, so I completely understand.
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Guest ~*QueenSaiya*~
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I know what you mean, like when you've been getting a lot of attention then you don't for a while and you're like going through withdraws? Happens to me a lot tbh, you're not alone!

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I understand. Sometimes it gets me really sad and mope around until I get cuddles and feel better.

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Sometimes I throw a tantrum when Daddy doesnt give me attention
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Thank you everyone for letting me know I'm not some attention needing/craving weirdo Xp I think the longest I've ever gone without a total freak out or tantrum is about two days. It's just harder now since he's home literally all day, every day but he's playing his game Xp

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Guest thequeenslittle
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i feel like im dying when mommy doesnt give me attention so its hard for me when she works her full 8 hours shift plus her 3-4 hour commute and im stuck at home i just wanna cry near the end of it over the fact that shes not home yet and i want her attention. when mommys not giving me attention and she is home i just try and be adorable to get her attention or like just go lay in her lap or block the computer or phone screen with my body while being adorable. or my favorite is te just go nuzzle up against her and like force my head under her arms or something so she stops what shes doing and gives me all her attention instead. basically just imagine a cat looking for attention hahah

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i feel like im dying when mommy doesnt give me attention so its hard for me when she works her full 8 hours shift plus her 3-4 hour commute and im stuck at home i just wanna cry near the end of it over the fact that shes not home yet and i want her attention. when mommys not giving me attention and she is home i just try and be adorable to get her attention or like just go lay in her lap or block the computer or phone screen with my body while being adorable. or my favorite is te just go nuzzle up against her and like force my head under her arms or something so she stops what shes doing and gives me all her attention instead. basically just imagine a cat looking for attention hahah

This is pretty much what I did last time that Daddy came over <3 I miss him

Guest thequeenslittle
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This is pretty much what I did last time that Daddy came over <3 I miss him

i  miss my mommy too but she wont be home for a while :( just sometimes get so bored when shes not home and its a ton of fun for me to do that :)

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this is the perfect way to describe what i experience when Daddy goes to sleep and we're on totally different time zones

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I feel like that too! i so needy hehehe Ooo I love your profile picture Mezgoezrawrz <3 Totoro makes me happies

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i miss my mommy too but she wont be home for a while :( just sometimes get so bored when shes not home and its a ton of fun for me to do that :)

Daddy lives in America, we're 4,000+ miles away and have a 6 hour time difference

Guest thequeenslittle
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Daddy lives in America, we're 4,000+ miles away and have a 6 hour time difference

oh goodness im so sorry me and mommy were LDR for a year or so it was really hard for us

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oh goodness im so sorry me and mommy were LDR for a year or so it was really hard for us

It's otay. We love each other so we make it work :3

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I am having a fit right NOW because I'm in little space and at work and Daddy is at home I assume cleaning or something so he's too busy to talk to me and I need attention RIGHT NOW! I know he needs to clean and I need to work but when LS happens I just don't CARE! I need LOVE NOW!

Guest thequeenslittle
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It's otay. We love each other so we make it work :3

thats goods im happys yous cans thats whats mes and mommys dids ands its was wowths its

Guest thequeenslittle
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I am having a fit right NOW because I'm in little space and at work and Daddy is at home I assume cleaning or something so he's too busy to talk to me and I need attention RIGHT NOW! I know he needs to clean and I need to work but when LS happens I just don't CARE! I need LOVE NOW!

i completely agree and feel the same way sometimes when mommy is at work and im stuck at home its soooooooooo hard being away from her when im in little space

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I feel like that too! i so needy hehehe Ooo I love your profile picture Mezgoezrawrz <3 Totoro makes me happies

 

Totoro is my life! I think it might be the movie that led me to realize I might be a little Xp 

 

I kind of feel bad for putting this thread up now. I feel like I'm pulling everyone into my little sadness time

Guest thequeenslittle
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Totoro is my life! I think it might be the movie that led me to realize I might be a little Xp 

 

I kind of feel bad for putting this thread up now. I feel like I'm pulling everyone into my little sadness time

dont feel bad!!! when were desperate fows attentions its just means wes missies ouws cawegivews

Guest Sexycurvyprincess
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I go through these constantly!

It sucks but it's totally normal, hun.

Just occupy yourself when it happens, and you'll hopefully feel a little better.

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Don't feel bad. Its super nice to know I'm not the only one!! I can't tell you how many times I have snuggled up next to my Totoro stuffie ^.^ and tried to google diagnose myself with some kind of attention deficit disorder that has nothing to do with actual ADD!!!

 

I mean I understand for myself where it comes from childhood and then following bad relationships but I still don't even feel like I have a normal response to ANY lack of Daddy attention... I completely fall apart. I've done a lot to try to better myself over the past couple years but annnny sort of little hint or reminder can become an INTENSE feeling that is extremely hard to overcome. <3

 

Anyway feel free to message me if you ever feel lonely or confused. I would welcome the company and the reminder that we are OK - not crazy beyond repair... :p

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