What's so wrong with me?

[Guest Nobodyspecial]

Every time I get close and start to trust someone and start to call them my Daddy/Sir they all leave me. What am I doing so wrong? I know it takes me a while to really warm up to someone new but I'm only trying to protect myself from getting hurt again by being used as just another play thing. Although I really enjoy the sexual stuff that's not all there is to me. I want someone to care about me for real...not pretend til they get my body and its not good enough so they cheat or just disappear. Why is my love not good enough for anyone? If I could love myself the way I want to love someone else I wouldn't be so lonely or needy ...and that's one of the worst parts of this for me...everyone says they want needy and clingy but then they're never there when I'm honest about having a needy day and they always go away...

[Guest QueenJellybean]

There isn't anything wrong with you at all. I'm sorry that your past experiences have made you feel that way.

 

It's tough to find someone who meshes well with us and covers our needs. It will take some time, but the fact that you haven't given up is a great indicator of who you are as a person. It will be worth the wait, I have to believe that. There is absolutely nothing wrong with your love.

 

You do have a point about loving yourself, even though that doesn't take away from how you're feeling or invalidate those experiences. Maybe it's time to practice a bit of self-love and fall in love with yourself. You are an amazing person, and someone will see that some day. But you need to see it too. 

[Guest thequeenslittle]

im so sorry youve had such a bad experience with that. other people leaving you has nothing to do with the quality of you as a person. you are an amzing person and im sorry the people you have let into your life have betrayed your trust. You deserve to be able to trust someone and im sure you will find the perfect person for you who you can trust with your life and know theyll treat you right and be there when you need them, if you need someone to talk to im happy to talk just shoot me a message. im sorry all this has happened to you but that doesnt change the fact that you are an absolutely amazing person and deserve a happy fairytale life with an amazing prince to sweep you off your feet.

[Mikaitaku]

unfortunately I have been in the same head space before, more times than I care to remember. the only advice I can really give is to take it easy, don't trust too openly until you have known for a long time (months, seasons). 

[Aqu45]

i completely understand how youre feeling, but as so many people have told me lately and now im telling you, you are perfect just the way you are. It takes time to find the right daddy that meshes with you, im still having this problem, but dont give up. I know alot of people claim to be daddys and really only want a plaything but there are good daddys out there. From the short time ive joined this sight ive talked to so many littles who have fabulous relationships and it really helps keep your little spark of hope alive that it will happen for you too. Talk to people, its amazing how much something so little can help you  

[Guest Switch_Ewen]

Its nothing wrong with you, you're just attracting the wrong people. To attract the right people you need to let people know more about yourself through developing your profile more, otherwise all the genuine daddys and doms go for littles they connect with by sharing mutual interests (found out through profiles), and you're just left with the desperate ones who don't care until they've got something sexual. So yeah, take pride in your profile and get actively talking to people and you'll attract someone genuine:) 

[LoralieHaze]

I wasn't going to reply to this topic but I saw something that made me concerned. You posted today in a different topic:

 

"my current Daddy is teaching me that even though he is a bit harsh it is for my own good and through it all I still know he loves me..."

 

Exactly how new is this current Daddy? Please correct me if I'm wrong, but from what I can tell, it seems to be only a few days. If that is in fact the case, then I feel obligated to say that what you're doing wrong is moving way too fast. I'm sorry if this is coming off as accusatory, I'm just trying to help.

Edited October 24, 2016 by LittleKittenLo