Is it possible to be both Dom and Little?

[Guest TheJoker]

I have wondered about this, whether it is possible to be Daddy and little?

 

Of course not at the same time but to switch between roles depending on the mood or partner. I think it is since there are no lines marking out what identify we should be or exhibit.

 

But I would love other people's views on this?

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I am pretty sure this is called a "switch"

[Guest QueenJellybean]

It is indeed called a switch, but only if that's what you want it to be called!

 

Short answer: Yes. 

 

Long answer: Anything works if you want it to. There is no right or wrong way to do things as long as you've being safe and consensual and informing everyone involved. I took a long ass time to admit that I was a switch even though I was a Little who also enjoyed topping other women. Do what works for you, use what works for you, and go at a pace that works for you. The rest will figure itself out. 

[LittleGirlEmilia]

Hello! Yes, you can be both! I actually think it's called being a Switch, same way a sub can be a dom too! It would depend on your partner too, this might work best in a poly relationship as you can have a daddy/mommy and a little/middle! In a monogamous relationship it could be more tricky as you'd have to find a partner who is like yourself, a switch and it would depend on both your moods, but you could be a little at the same time which could be fun, my concern would be wanting my daddy but he would be in littlespace. That's my opinion anyways, but yes, totally a thing. 

[Guest]

You can totally be a little dom as well !  

[Guest Switch_Ewen]

Yeah, known as a switch. I enjoy both sub and dom, although I am not a "little" just sub or dom. But yeah its completely normal to enjoy both sides of the bdsm spectrum:)

[LoralieHaze]

While I find it very refreshing that you're eager to learn, I see that you might need to brush up on your BDSM basics. This wikipedia page is a wonderful place to start. Something you should also look at, that's more DDlg specific, is this resource post about types of littles. Furthermore, I would highly suggest that you wait to find a partner until you're much more well versed in the terminology and basic structure of not only the DDlg dynamic but power exchange as a whole.

[Guest QueenJaylen]

yes of course ma love it's called a switch

[SassyAssyBrat]

Mhmm Daddy and I are bof switches. So sometimes I is Little Miss, and sometimes I am Mistress. It is fantastical 

[Guest TheJoker]

Thanks for the help, yes I do need to verse myself on BDSM terminology but I am discovery as I go. To be honest I only really knew about DDLG this week but it feels like I have belonged in this forever.

 

Emotionally some of my feelings finally make sense.