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[Guest Bbygrl]

Is it okay for me to say I'm a little but I've never had a daddy? I've never experienced a ddlg relationship but I still like it... if that makes sense.

[Guest ~*QueenSaiya*~]

Absolutely it makes sense! You don't have to have a daddy in order to be a little! Daddies aren't what makes us littles! Its just who we are! You'll find someone and you'll be able to experience a ddlg relationship at some point!

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I think so. When I started looking into ddlg, I was like "oh my goodness! I'm normal!" It was just something I've always been. When I was in high school I played with bubbles and sidewalk chalk, light brights, and other fun things. I didn't know anything about ddlg then. My Daddy and I are married, we are discovering this together. But we both made the comment a couple weeks ago that this is just natural.

[PrettyLittlePrincessAlison]

I'm in the same boat as Daddy's_Babygirl. My Daddy and I were in a vanilla relationship then started to dabble in BDSM (starting with some light bondage) and ended up stumbling upon DDLG and it just sort of felt right for both of us. I've always loved all things pink and sparkly and anything Hello Kitty. It was pretty common for my family to get me something Hello Kitty for Christmas in high school and college because it was just something I liked. It was pretty funny looking back at presents my Daddy had given me over the course of our relationship because they were all "little" without meaning to be (stuffies and a tiara and a magic wand). You don't need to have a Daddy to be a little- its just something inherent to who you are... but having a Daddy does make it easier (in my opiniom, don't hate!) to get into littlespace because he encourages me to be little by making sure I'm being safe while on a walk or helping me build a blanket fort or making sure I don't spend my whole allowance (what is left of my paycheck after bills and savings) on chocolates and coloring books.

[Beasourous]

You don't have to have a daddy to be a little. Daddy is there to take care of you but you can still discover the little side of you on your own. Just enjoy being a little and all the fun you can have being one.