A Bored Daddy

[Nai_Love]

My Daddy has recently been sad and not having a lot of time for me and I miss him and want to make him happy and cheer him up. But I feel like he has been getting bored with me, and since we are long distance, I don't know how to make him happier without giving him lots of hugs and kisses!! Help me figure out a way to make my Daddy happy before he grows bored of me :c

[LolitasDaddy]

Make him something personal. A nice picture, cheer up card, video message, or have a talk with him about his needs and how you both can do something together to bring his spirits up.

[LoralieHaze]

How long have the two of you been together that you feel like he's getting bored with you?

[tinkerpale]

I'd get a bit bratty & become too busy for him for a little while.

If a Daddy doesn't give me much time, he starts to not feel like a Daddy anymore. Makes me feel bratty & feel like I should start looking for trouble. NOT talking about cheating.. I'm talking about other kinds of trouble.

[Guest thequeenslittle]

mommy and i were LDR for a little over a year and it was really hard on us as i struggled a lot with depression and self harm and sometimes mommy thought i wasnt that interested in us anymore because of it and i felt the same way with her sometimes but we figured outways to show each other we werent by talking it all through. one thing that really helped me was doing skype or other video calls because when we were able to see each others reactions and what the other was doing it felt more real and authentic. also i sent mommy a "little love box" at least thats what i call it but it was a care package with all sorts of stuff to make my mommy happy!! like her favorite snacks one of my favorite stories her favorite candy and her favorite tea her favorite color pens all sorts of stuff like that and then i drew on the inside of the box and wrote stuff for her on it like i know i put "distance may be hard but its not impossible" and other stuff like that too mommy also sending pictures you colored for him!! that could help a lot too but just let him know  how your feeling try and talk to him about everything it may really help maybe hes just struggling

[Thequeen]

I agree with what everyone has said here but as a mommy dom I think that it might just be time to straight up ask "are you bored with me?" if he says yes, have follow up questions ready. "Do you want to try and fix this?" "what can I do to fix this?" "is there any particular area that is causing you to be bored?" and be prepared to honestly feel hurt and a bit betrayed because its true you will probably feel those things even if you go into it with good intentions and he might as well. But you can't really pretend for long before it hurts you both physical, emotionally, spiritual (not even int he faith way but in the personal energy we all hold within ourselves). 

 

But you also need to reach deep down into your heart and figure out if he means this much to you or if you have also grown bored of him. Once you know for sure you need to make sure you are ready to act on those thoughts and feelings truly- only you will know if you did or didnt but you still really should as it is in your best interest. If he meant a lot to you before then try to fix it if not maybe its time to move on. Its all up to you though so you need to pick and stick to it. Good luck and all of us are here for you! add me or friend me if you want!

-TheQueen

[Dumbledork'sPrincess]

I agree with what everyone has said here but as a mommy dom I think that it might just be time to straight up ask "are you bored with me?" if he says yes, have follow up questions ready. "Do you want to try and fix this?" "what can I do to fix this?" "is there any particular area that is causing you to be bored?" and be prepared to honestly feel hurt and a bit betrayed because its true you will probably feel those things even if you go into it with good intentions and he might as well. But you can't really pretend for long before it hurts you both physical, emotionally, spiritual (not even int he faith way but in the personal energy we all hold within ourselves).

 

But you also need to reach deep down into your heart and figure out if he means this much to you or if you have also grown bored of him. Once you know for sure you need to make sure you are ready to act on those thoughts and feelings truly- only you will know if you did or didnt but you still really should as it is in your best interest. If he meant a lot to you before then try to fix it if not maybe its time to move on. Its all up to you though so you need to pick and stick to it. Good luck and all of us are here for you! add me or friend me if you want!

-TheQueen

This is great advice! It can be hard but I think this might be a great way to go about it!