New Daddy with an unexpected reaction

[hexomega]

My babygirl and I are new to the scene. Anyway, I recently punished her with a writing assignment, part of which was an apology letter. As I was reading it, I noticed that while not an erection,the blood definitely began to pump down there causing a stirring. I couldn't believe I was aroused! Anyone heard of this or had it happen?

[Guest SaladHater]

Maybe you have a fetish for paper

[Donatien]

Oooo that yummy ink ...

When you are in a Dom/sub relationship, the sexual part off it is kind of the cornerstone. So when you act within this relation, like giving her a writing assignment as a punishmemt, reading it back when she is 'done' is also an act within your dominant role. The brain of a kinkster will easily make a sexual conection in a situation like that. Just think of a Headmaster/student roleplay; "well miss, I belive you did an acceptable job, but I'm affraid I will have to punish you further. Close the door please". I'm sure daddys feel that rush all the time

[DollDirector]

Being aroused is normal. The relationship is pleasurable. You just have to remind yourself that the more so,the more attention you have to pay to how she feels.

[hexomega]

Donatien: thanks. That makes sense especially since we do have sex in our relationship.

 

Doll director: can you elaborate on the last part of your statement please? Thanks.

Edited October 14, 2016 by hexomega

[DollDirector]

I was in fact just stating something obvious about balance in the dynamic: The more dom pleasure you get out of the situation,the more you have to mind her well-being and consent.

[hexomega]

[perrtykitty21]

Maybe you have a fetish for paper

[perrtykitty21]

Hello

[Littlest_Lushie]

That is completely normal. My Daddy gets aroused when I lightly cry and pout sometimes. He is never mean about it or anything though. 

 

I'm sure the rush of domination is extremely powerful for Doms, and there is nothing wrong with being aroused. You love knowing that your little took command and did as you asked- it only further instills that you have the respective control and that she trusts you enough to comply. 

 

Do NOT be ashamed. Totally normal in my opinion. If you feel good or are happy- it is never wrong. (Unless of course it were to make you or your partner uncomfortable in some way.)

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

You're a Dom! It's the perks of the job! You have to enjoy it and clearly...you enjoy her submission (hence the halfway pants party)! It's totally normal!

[tinkerpale]

Sounds like a good punishment to me.. She probably liked it too, in her own little way.

[hexomega]

I'm loving the community here so far. You all have given some great feedback. Thanks.

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

This community is amazing! Very welcoming and a wealth of good information! We have such a diverse group here that there isn't much that can't be answered with knowledge and experience!