trying to break up

[Guest degirl]

Hey.. 

 

sooo.. I'm trying to break up with my daddy for a while now. things just don't work out... but I can't. Everytime I try i go back to him. I feel like I'm obsessed or something. I really love him but it would be the best if we break up and go seperate ways. but how?  

Edited October 12, 2016 by degirl

[HeCallsMePrincess]

make yourself a list of pros and cons. it may be you find you need to walk away, in which case seeing all the reasons why written out may help. or, you could find that with discussion and changes the relationship might work. good luck

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

I second what Princess says!!

 

If you come to the conclusion that you guys arent good together - You need a clean break. Remove from social media, block his cell number, and just cut contact until you are "over" it. You guys may become friends again.. you may not. 

 

Good luck, Stay Strong and I hope it all works out for you!

[raptorkitty]

You can love someone but not be involve with them. I went through the same thing. I was in a 3 year relationship but wasn't "involve" with him the last year i was with him. But i still cared deeply for him and thought that it was love. I tried breaking up many times but always went back after a couple hours or days. 

 

Number 1 thing is, if you are in a relationship and you think about breaking up, that relationship isn't for you. 

Second is, its not fair to your partner for you to not be fully committed. You are holding them back (as harsh as that may sound, its a reason to move on)

Third, You are holding yourself back from many opportunities that are trying to come your way, hold onto a relationship you don't actually want. 

 

Its hard breaking up with someone, the fear of being alone creeps up and taking the next step is hard. But sometimes you just have to cut the cord. Break up. Block all contact so you don't go back. 

[Guest thequeenslittle]

I know it may seem hard i was stuck in a couple realy bad relationships for a while because i  couldnt just say goodbye i was literally terrified of being alone i would have panic attacks when trying to break up with them. But you ahve to figure out why you cant leave sometimes its about thinking you cant find someone else or that you cant do things without them. in which case you ujust have to remember you can always find somebody your an amazing person and deserve to be happy and will find someone who makes you happy it might not be right away but it will come and you can do everything you need to even if its hard you can find away Good Luck!