How to get into little space

[beingthesubme]

I can't fully get into little space by myself. I think "this is stupid," or "what would people think?" and I just can't organically play (like with stuffies or whatever) and have that little mindset. 

 

I'm not an age-player, nor do I have a specifiable little age. I'm just little. I dunno.

 

I so badly want to have fun and really be in little space.

 

Help?

Edited October 26, 2016 by collegegirlnerd

[little_melody]

Sometimes I feel like this too it's okay :3

I like to think of little space as a time for relaxation and me time. If you're getting into little space in the privacy of your own home like in your room, no one can judge you so it could be a nice way of getting more comfortable with it? 
Set the scene as well, put on some cute music, dress up in your fav clothes and get out your fav little activity and give it some time  
Maybe open up to your partner so they can give you reassurance as well. 

There is nothing stupid about little space! However you want to relax or have fun is completely up to you <3 

[Guest PrincessCakes]

Just because you're a little doesn't mean you have to be an age player, if you think it's stupid or don't like something you don't have to do it, plus maybe you like dollies more than stuffies, or maybe race cars or easy bake or something like that. Don't set boundaries on toys based on gender, or age or anything, just find what you like personally, and maybe you don't like pretending, every little is different

[LoralieHaze]

In my opinion and experience, little space is a part of ageplay, not a part of DDlg, because it is essentially age regression. (They do work together well, but they're not inherently connected, as mentioned in this post.) When I'm in little or middle space, it's because my mind is in a place where I feel like I'm 6, or 12, or whatever the number is at that particular time. Feeling that way is nice, but it's not necessary for a DDlg dynamic. If you always feel like you're 22-years-old, you can still be your Daddy's little girl. He can still nurture and encourage you, and he's still your Dom.

 

If you want to experience little space, and your ageplayer score on your BDSM test is 76%, then I think you should try to experiment with it more. The most important part of that will be letting go of any mental blocks you have, such as thinking it's stupid or that people are going to judge you harshly for it. It's not stupid if it makes you feel good and you enjoy it. No one but you and your Daddy have to know about it, and if someone was to judge it as a bad thing, it would probably be because they don't understand it.

[LanaBanana]

I'm glad I found this post cause this is what I struggle with too. Once I can get myself into little space it's great! I am relaxed and happy and as little as they come. I struggle with the same thoughts though and it is a fight I constantly have of thsi "Embarrasment and Shame" Thinsg I shouldn't feel nor should any little but I can't help it. I hid my little side away for so long it is really hard to let go and just relax and enjoy it!

[beingthesubme]

I have been embarrassed by liking childish things since I was a child. I remember being in second grade and being embarrassed that I still loved my dollhouse people... so as you can imagine it is a million times worse now as an adult.