Introduce boyfriend to DDlg?

[Pix]

Hello! I have been lurking on the forum for a little while debating whether to make an account, yet alone make this post. 

 

I've been dating the most wonderful guy you'd ever meet since July. We have an age gap (I'm half his age), but he treats me like a princess. He's a perfect gentleman, opening/closing doors for me, getting my chair, getting things that are too high for me to reach, and remembers what foods I can't eat. He also helps bathe me when I'm at his house, and enjoys drying me off and wrapping my hair in a towel. During times I fell asleep on the couch at his house, he'd sit next to me when he'd wake me up and stroke my hair no matter the length of time it took me to get up. If I'm having pain he'll get me medicine or give me a massage. He covers me with a blanket when I'm cold and always makes sure I'm comfortable. At one point I was going through a very bad rough patch, and he was there by my side the entire time. A few times during sex he asked, "Who's your daddy?" or referred to himself as daddy. When he heard of an ex of mine being transgendered, and switching between wanting to be my husband/wife, he said (in regards to my ex) that there's not enough mental healthcare in America. I can't help but think about the DDlg lifestyle and how he treats me, but wonder what he'd think, or how to approach the topic. I'm not sure if he might judge the idea harshly. Thoughts?

[Pix]

I forgot to mention...he holds my elbow when I'm going up/down stairs and puts him on the outside of the sidewalk when we're walking somewhere. If he notices a car is coming towards us (or reversing) before I do, he quickly guides me to his other side so he's between the car and myself. He gets me chocolate after sex, gets me a warm washcloth for after sex, and also helps me walk to the bathroom afterwards (my legs give out from being so wobby *blush*).  He loves making me breakfast and doesn't seem to mind that the movies we've been mainly watching together have been children's movies (Finding Dory, Zootopia, etc). What do you think? 

[Guest ZenDD]

I don't know what you feel you need to introduce. It seems you already have a CG/l relationship here. Do you need the acknowledgement of calling it DDlg? Seems like he already asks for you to call him Daddy. Are you not openly being more 'little' around him? Is that what it is you would be "introducing"?

 

I'm not sure what your statement on his comment about mental health is about. I don't know if he offended you with his comment or what it has to do with the relationship you currently have with him. Is it that you think he'd take issue with the mental health of utilizing DDlg archetypes ( "Daddy" and "little" )? He already asks "who is your Daddy?" so he can't be that against it. As close as you two seem to be i'm not sure why you're apprehensive in talking to him about all of this. If it's that you're afraid of losing the relationship then that's not a good enough reason because if you can't be yourself and have the relationship you want to have then how good could this be anyway? Is this relationship, as it is, worth you not being any more little than you are being now? If you're happy as it is then there is your answer. If you need more, then set a time when you can speak to each other uninterrupted and share your feelings. Good luck!

[Pix]

Hello, Zen! I wasn't sure how he'd feel about me being more "little" around him. I guess I wasn't sure if he'd think I needed mental health treatment if I brought it up, which was why I mentioned briefly about his thoughts regarding an ex. How do I go about openly being more little?