I'm just.... lost...

[Littlekk]

I've tried to be a good girl... I've tried to be bad. I've tried so hard to be what I want to be as a little but I just can't find a daddy that truly loves me... I just want to be cared for and loved and to have a daddy that I can give all this love I have inside of me... everyone tells me that I'll find one. It takes time. But it's been so long that I really am starting to believe I'm just an unlovable little...

[Guest MisterBrownEyes]

"Reach for the moon, even if you fall short, you'll land among the stars"

 

There is a Daddy out there for you. You've just not met him yet... Same for me, I'm aching for a little to love and look after...

 

"Nothing worth having comes easy" We both have to be patient and keep trying, eventually it will happen, I'm sure of it =}

 

Good luck =} x

[Secret-ingredient]

it is difficult to deal with loneliness in even the best of times. but keep at it there are people who want nothing but happiness for you and u got another one here. hope everything sifts into place for you

[Strawberry Sprinkles]

A Cg/l relationship is going to take a long time to find, especially if you're searching for a healthy and happy one. Think of it like throwing pieces of spaghetti at the wall, trying to find one that sticks. Sometimes, it hasn't spent long enough in the boiler and other times it could of just been a bad noodle.

 

The wait for a caregiver is a hard one.  Many Littles have an innate need to feel protected, nourished with love, and cared for. It's  the one craving chocolate can't cure. Maybe you don't find a Daddy, like myself, but a partner who you feels loves you, you love them back, and supports the Little in you.

 

I really don't know what to say other than ramble on about things you've probably heard of before. I'll send a friend request, though. If you're ever lonely, don't hesitate to message me. I'm not always online, however, I will respond.

[roseyposey]

It sucks, doesn't it? The loneliness...

 

I'm going through a similar situation and have decided I'm ready to stop. Stop trying to find someone and just focus on being happy by myself.

 

Maybe try adding new hobbies, focusing on making as many little friends as possible, working out, etc. to keep your mind busy. But know that you're not alone in this. Like Sprinkles, I'll add you as a friend and I'm always around if you need to talk. ((Hugs))

[Guest ZenDD]

You are very, very young. I know that when one is young it can be hard to think about the long-term. But the reality is that you have plenty of time in which to have new experiences, friendships, and relationships. You need to seek out external inspirations, like art, and music, and philosophy. And take those external inspirations and turn them into internal ones with introspection and learning about your sources of identity. 

 

Don't just sit back and wait for a Daddy to make everything better. Littles are strong, and must learn to nurture their own little needs because, in life, Daddy won't always be around, even when he wants to be. Do these things, expose yourself to new sights and ideas and in the process, you will eventually find a Daddy and you will be better prepared, have more to offer, and have more to learn, accept, and expect from him.

 

I know it's hard to hear, and sometimes it feels like it doesn't help, but the truth is that you have to learn some patience,but not sit on your hands and wait, and that it will only be a matter of time before you meet your Daddy. The reality is that at your age, you will probably meet more than one Daddy and go through more good times and bad times, more learning experiences, and you will become a better person because of it. As you become a more experienced person, you will attract a more experienced and mature Daddy, too.

 

Keep your head up. Stay strong. Good luck!

[Guest Princessaj]

I am old. I have waited for so many things in life. Things that I thought would make or break me.

Now, I have peace about waiting for a Daddy. 

 

Most of all, don't ever hold "all this love I have inside of me" give it to charity, volunteer, please.

 

The more you give, you get more in return and have more to give to your future Daddy.

 

Create an amazing living little "story" to tell. 

 

Actively shine your DDlg light. 

 

Good luck!

[Guest Daddys_ace]

Everyone deserves love, especially you! All the advice given is phenomenal but only you can choose to get yourself out of this funk and decide to make yourself happy.

 

Try to focus on long term instead of immediate wants, you deserve a long term situation where you can be happy. Don't rush into things with someone because they offer you instant gratification, you deserve the moon and the stars and the right person will come along and bring you an entire universe of happiness.

 

You've got this girl! Give yourself a pep talk, put your big girl panties on and take charge of your life! I believe in you and know you can do it!

[Princess-P]

At 19 years old you have not been waiting that long for a Daddy. It might seem like forever because your not receiving instant gratification that so many of us are used to and expect. Real love takes time. So try not to focus in finding a Daddy. The harder you search the linger it will seem to take. Go about living your life and being happy alone and let the right significant other come to you. He may be a Daddy,he may not. But love is love, don't look for a label.