the mommy list

[twifox the genderfluid fox]

so i decided there should be a list where everyone who is a mommy or wants to be a mommy or has a mommy side

to post here so we can 

 

1 see how many mamas are on the site

2 have mama friends

3 have mamas other mamas can to go to for advice in mama related matters

4 get to know mamas 

5 for littles and middles and pets to be able to find a mama to talk to for advice in mama /little matters

6 everything mama oriented

7 fun!!

[twifox the genderfluid fox]

is a little middle genderfluid agefluid switch very much wanting to lern to be a mommy

[Guest LiddlePwincess]

Ive recently decided to give being a mommy a go and Im loving it so far but I also do have a little side. *waves*

[Strawberry Sprinkles]

I wasn't nicknamed Mama back in high school for nothing. While I'm not a "Mommy" in the Cg/l sense of the word, I've always had strong maternal instincts for those younger than myself, whether in actual age or personality. Being around Littles with a younger "Little range"  than myself brings out an urge to babysit every so often, kind of like being that one really cool aunt. I entertain the thought of planning out fun days. Going to the park, coloring page contests, arts and crafts. I would LOVE to do a different theme every week. 

 

 

For example, one week would be mermaids. 

 

❥ Monday would be movie day, watching the Little Mermaid or (my personal favorite) H20: Mako Mermaids. 

❥ Wednesday we'd do coloring pages and story time. For this, my favorite story is the Centaur And The Mermaid.

❥ Friday would be craft day, making mermaid tiaras,  construction paper/origami turtles and other marine friends. 

 

 

-cough- Sorry for the kinda related/kinda not related rambling. 

Edited October 9, 2016 by Strawberry Sprinkles

[Daddyslilhoneybee]

I am a switch (little/mommy). I am not a domme, though. Just a loving caregiver. I am pansexual, and don't have a preference for the gender of either my little or my caregiver.

[twifox the genderfluid fox]

yayyyyy for mamas!!!

[Thequeen]

Hey all! I am a mommy dom as well as a master to my little boy and slave. So far it looks like I'm the only official official mommy here but I am excited to met you all who even slightly identify as a mommy as you are very right, twifox, there are not many of us on here so we must all bond together for our best chance of success! I hope to hear from you all soon so that we can share stories, assist each other in life, and conquer the unknown! Add me as friends if you guys want or we can all just chat on here  

 

And since we all want to get to know each other and have some fun I am going to introduce myself more in depth. So I live in the Boston, MA area with my little boy. We have been dating for three years as just standard boyfriend girlfriend, mommy/master and little/slave for about a year now (since he turned 18). We love going out to the city and exploring and adventuring! We have fun long cuddle days and Netflix and chill! 

 

I personally try to stay pretty active on the forum so you guys can find me all over the place if you really want to- to see my opinions and thoughts on various topics! Hope I am not too scary for you guys or anything like that I know master can be kind of intense sometimes but I am a really nice caring girl, hence the mommy/caregiver, so I hope we can all be friends!

 

-TheQueen

[MommyLovesHerMinion]

Hello, My name is Shay. I am a Mommy to two little pets, a boy and a girl. I would love to meet more Mommy's and littles I am always open to that. 

 

I am 25 years old, my currently relationships are LDR which can be very taxing especially due to my schedule and my littles schedule. However when I find the time I love to play computer games, I am a bit of a nerd. I am a fan of binge watching netflix or Amazon tv shows. Lets call that a hobby. 

 

When it comes to the forum I am more of an observer and I input my opinion where I think I have good input.

 

I believe thats all I have to share for now, feel free to send me a message or communicate through here. 

[twifox the genderfluid fox]

5 points to all mommys that posted!

[Thequeen]

Oh my goodness shay I have seen your posts a few time and have been wondering about you don't take that the wrong way or anything okay? Just curious to learn more about you. Strawberry sprinkles I've seen you a few times but not too much. As for everyone else I can't say I have seen your posts but I know I will now nice to met everyone so far. And so long as twifox, you are okay with this, we could turn this into more of a mommy discussion page?

[Guest QueenJellybean]

Hi there!

 

I'm a unique little snowflake here, and I'm both a Caregiver to my girlfriend (but I don't go by Mommy, I'm a Miss), and a Little to my Alpha. I'm a twenty-five year old and I call myself the Tiny Sadist and the Baby Masochist. I'm glad to meet other Caregivers! 

 

I'm very used to being a Big Sister, which I consider a Caregiver-type role, but I'm sort of new to being an actual Caregiver, so any tips or advice from other switches in particular will be really beneficial! 

[Thequeen]

Hi there!

 

I'm a unique little snowflake here, and I'm both a Caregiver to my girlfriend (but I don't go by Mommy, I'm a Miss), and a Little to my Alpha. I'm a twenty-five year old and I call myself the Tiny Sadist and the Baby Masochist. I'm glad to meet other Caregivers! 

 

I'm very used to being a Big Sister, which I consider a Caregiver-type role, but I'm sort of new to being an actual Caregiver, so any tips or advice from other switches in particular will be really beneficial! 

 

I have always wanted to ask but have never had the courage I guess. But are you all dating each other or is it like your the piece that brought everyone together? And is it like a pyramid system of who is in charge or do you all only listen to specific people? Sorry i have just been intrigued by your signature and never knew how to ask. I've tried a few times now to date another person but i always feel guilty, like I am betraying my little

[babylion]

Hi everyone. I was hoping I could find a cg or little friends to talk to! I love being a little*blushes* I guess thats all.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

I have always wanted to ask but have never had the courage I guess. But are you all dating each other or is it like your the piece that brought everyone together? And is it like a pyramid system of who is in charge or do you all only listen to specific people? Sorry i have just been intrigued by your signature and never knew how to ask. I've tried a few times now to date another person but i always feel guilty, like I am betraying my little

 

Don't be sorry! I love answering questions about my lifestyle choices. Makes me happy. 

 

Not all of us are dating each other, no. My girlfriend, Beast, and I are all living together and we are all dating each other and Beast and I share another partner, but my two other Caregivers are not dating my girlfriend or Beast. Beast has a few partners of His own that I'm not involved with, and so does our girlfriend. We do have a pyramid system, but only within our own relationships. Beast is the head of the Household, and generally everyone defers to Him. 

 

Guilt is a pretty common emotion when you're beginning polyamory, but I think that the way our relationship works involves a lot of communication and talking through those emotions that scare us. It's not for everyone though, so don't feel badly for it not working for you! 

[Thequeen]

 

Guilt is a pretty common emotion when you're beginning polyamory, but I think that the way our relationship works involves a lot of communication and talking through those emotions that scare us. It's not for everyone though, so don't feel badly for it not working for you! 

 

So how do you manage dating so many people? dont you ever feel like your not giving them enough attention? or what about when something happens to you that was emotional do you tell them all or do you have one go to person? does this mean you dont believe in the whole soul mates thing?

[Guest QueenJellybean]

So how do you manage dating so many people? dont you ever feel like your not giving them enough attention? or what about when something happens to you that was emotional do you tell them all or do you have one go to person? does this mean you dont believe in the whole soul mates thing?

 

A lot of us have emotional capacity tap-outs, so to speak. Just like with our friendships, we recognize when we don't have enough time or energy to give. I know that I can't have any more relationships right now than the ones that I have. I've had to turn down people before, I've had to break up with people because I wasn't able to give them the relationship they deserved. It happens. You need to be self-aware, I think, and be honest with yourself and others about your limits and abilities. 

 

I get asked how I manage a lot, and it's surprisingly easy. Date nights are really important, even if they aren't regular. Those little messages help a lot. Sending care packages and letters in the mail. Scheduling visits. 

 

I actually have a locked journal that I write in when I need to communicate something to all of my partners at once. I often will delegate, too, and ask my triad partners (My girlfriend and Beast) to tell the other people in my lives if I physically can't because I live with them and see them in person. I have a lot of support, and understanding in my partners which I'm very lucky for.

 

I believe that our souls recognize and look for many other pieces of our soul in other people. I believe in soul mates, but not in the concept that you can only have one. I have unique, beautiful, and meaningful connections with more than one person. They each bring something different to our relationship. I can't imagine being told I have to get rid of these other relationships and choose my favorite. It's just what works for me and mine. 

[Strawberry Sprinkles]

Oh my goodness shay I have seen your posts a few time and have been wondering about you don't take that the wrong way or anything okay? Just curious to learn more about you. Strawberry sprinkles I've seen you a few times but not too much. As for everyone else I can't say I have seen your posts but I know I will now nice to met everyone so far. And so long as twifox, you are okay with this, we could turn this into more of a mommy discussion page?

Sorry, I just saw this! Hrm, I tend to keep to myself and lurk unless I see something I feel like I have a good grasp on. I was just lurking on your conversation between Belle and yourself. I was super curious too! You both seem really nice. ^~^

[Thequeen]

A lot of us have emotional capacity tap-outs, so to speak. Just like with our friendships, we recognize when we don't have enough time or energy to give. I know that I can't have any more relationships right now than the ones that I have. I've had to turn down people before, I've had to break up with people because I wasn't able to give them the relationship they deserved. It happens. You need to be self-aware, I think, and be honest with yourself and others about your limits and abilities. 

 

I get asked how I manage a lot, and it's surprisingly easy. Date nights are really important, even if they aren't regular. Those little messages help a lot. Sending care packages and letters in the mail. Scheduling visits. 

 

I actually have a locked journal that I write in when I need to communicate something to all of my partners at once. I often will delegate, too, and ask my triad partners (My girlfriend and Beast) to tell the other people in my lives if I physically can't because I live with them and see them in person. I have a lot of support, and understanding in my partners which I'm very lucky for.

 

I believe that our souls recognize and look for many other pieces of our soul in other people. I believe in soul mates, but not in the concept that you can only have one. I have unique, beautiful, and meaningful connections with more than one person. They each bring something different to our relationship. I can't imagine being told I have to get rid of these other relationships and choose my favorite. It's just what works for me and mine.

 

 

Thank you for the advice and insight!! My little keeps bringing up wanting brothers and sisters because I used to mention it but any time I tried I felt extreme guilt and could never find a good rhythm with it all. So he hopes I'll try again with your new insight to it all

[Thequeen]

Sorry, I just saw this! Hrm, I tend to keep to myself and lurk unless I see something I feel like I have a good grasp on. I was just lurking on your conversation between Belle and yourself. I was super curious too! You both seem really nice. ^~^

Aw thank you!

[twifox the genderfluid fox]

Oh my goodness shay I have seen your posts a few time and have been wondering about you don't take that the wrong way or anything okay? Just curious to learn more about you. Strawberry sprinkles I've seen you a few times but not too much. As for everyone else I can't say I have seen your posts but I know I will now nice to met everyone so far. And so long as twifox, you are okay with this, we could turn this into more of a mommy discussion page?

not sure wat ur askin please clarify

[Thequeen]

Well you wanted this to be a discussions page so I was thinking we could start moving in that direction now because we have a good sized group now

[twifox the genderfluid fox]

was hoping this would get pinned actualy so its easy for all to find also......5 POINTS TO ALL WHO RESPONDED YAAYYYYYYY

[BabygirlsShadow]

im a little/mommy dom switch ❤

[switchlittleloves]

Um.. I might be breaking a rule here but I'm looking for a mommy right now.. /).(\

 

I would really like just having a mommy to talk to even if she isn't mine ^~^

 

I'm also a caregiver and have done genderbent long-distance roleplay (I'm a boy). So in a weird sense I have been a mommy before, which feels odd to say. Oh well!

Edited December 20, 2016 by switchlittleloves

[Guest LittleLexiKitty]

Yay for all the mommies ^.^