Confused and Lost

[AngelLove]

So a while back my dom apparently got his phone taken away, that was over two weeks ago and I've heard nothing from him since, I've messaged him on every platform I can and I've gotten no replies. I don't know what to do, I just crashed my car so I can't even drive up to go see him, I'm just worried and confused, I love him to death and all my friends are saying to move on but I really don't want to he's the best dom I've ever had and I just love him so much..so what do i do? Do I move on or keep waiting and hoping he'll come back?

[Eris]

I don't know him or your relationship so I only can guess but I wonder why he can't drive to you, ask a friend to use their phone/computer etc. to contact you.

To help you better a bit more information about your relationship would be good (how long, how far apart are you living etc.)

[Guest ZenDD]

What a terrible emotional situation to be in; I'm very sorry you're having to go trough it. But it seems to me that if he really wanted to contact you he'd find a way to do it. You say he's the best Dom you've ever had, but honestly, he's not a very good one if he isn't finding a way to stay in touch. Maybe he doesn't want to stay in touch and didn't have the courage to tell you so he came up with an excuse. Either way, not a very good Dom.

 

He may have been a nice person to you, but he is obviously too young and immature to be a Dom to anyone if he's getting his phone taken away from his parents. If his story is true, then he's not even capable of Dominating his ability to hang on to a phone. If his story is an excuse then he's not even capable of Dominating his apprehension and has an inability or unwillingness to be upfront and honest. You have yet to actually meet a real Dom if he was the best you've had. 

 

You deserve better. Keep your head up, stay strong, and move on.

[roseyposey]

Hmmm...in today's digital age being non responsive due to not having a phone is a pretty weak excuse. Anyone can go to a library and use the computer...or borrow a friend's phone...heck even send a letter if you want to go old school haha.

 

I'm sorry that you're so worried. If he's not replying to your messages and isn't making a concerted effort to let you know he's ok then I agree with above- he might not be a good fit for you.

[Guest Mr.Cuddles]

^i agree with alot of whats said above and also if he really cared would he not just goto a payphone? call you up? its very easy and i know if something like that happened (wouldnt) id haul my ass to the nearest payphone/internet cafe to message my significant other.

It really sucks you have to go through this and i wish you the best of luck

[Guest GrapeApe]

I'm sorry, but it sounds like a typical case of ghosting or slow fade... Please see this article:

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/11758-ghosting-or-slow-fade/

[AngelLove]

It seems hes just ghosted on me..thank you everyone for your opinions and advice and such..