[Guest jaden.milk]

[Antoinette]

If you have their number or any other social media you could always message them and tell them!

[HeCallsMePrincess]

Social media is great for crushes. You can be flirty without being obvious.

[HeCallsMePrincess]

Social media is great for crushes. You can be flirty without being obvious.

[Eris]

Go to him and just say "Hi I'm (your name). Nice to meet you"

[Petal]

I have this exact same problem.  Not the crush thing, but the social anxiety and not knowing how to approach people.  It's really terrible sometimes. >_<

 

I try to remember that generally, people like to talk and make friends.  You won't annoy them or be a bother as much as you think you will.

[Guest MisterBrownEyes]

Is there any way you can both be in a scenario where you would have to talk? Is there an after school club you could both go to?

 

You could also try keeping long eye contact and always smiling at your crush. Difficult to do if you're shy, I know. But they may pick up on it, if you're showing a lot of interest through body language and then initiate first contact!

 

Most communication between people is non verbal anyway. Using your body language may be a way... Good luck =}

[sighing]

Ahh I remember the good old days of being in a university. So many attractive people, so little time

Sit next to the hottie in class and before it starts be like "Hey I've been sick the last couple of days and had to miss class. Do you mind letting me see your notes?" Any decent human being would share. If he doesn't, then screw him (not literally hahaha! I crack myself up). Assuming he's a good person and gives you his notes, you can follow up with a smooth "by the way my name is Jaden, nice to meet you!" and shake his hand. From there you can small talk with him about the classes he's taking, how he likes the professor, etc etc.

 

Congratulations. You've gotten your foot in the door and now exist to him as an acquaintance. You can now say hi to him anywhere on campus and randomly sit next to him in class without it being weird. From there you can work on weaseling your way into his pants. Uh... I meant heart!

[lilybell]

Eye contact, eye contact, EYE CONTACT. 

 

I cannot stress enough how important meeting and holding the gaze of someone that you find attractive is. Most people look for the "perfect" opportunity to approach someone, so if you realllllly want to get something going it's better to be proactive and CREATE the perfect opportunity. When I'm interested in someone I usually make my body language more open and inviting, I meet their gaze, smile, and offer my name. 9 times of 10, that will get the conversation rolling in a pretty positive direction. It can be hard if you're shy, which I am, but just fake it til you make it and make yourself seem approachable.