Can I still be little?

[Batbrat]

So I've struggled with self harm and depression for years. I guess my main thought is, can I still be a little even though I deal with this and somehow don't use little space as a coping mechanism? 

[LittleLily1996]

Yes. I struggle with self harm and depression. I am still a little.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

Oh goodness me, of course you can! 

 

Not everyone uses Little Space as a coping mechanism. In fact, for me personally, it's really hard for me to be small when I'm feeling anxious, depressed, or sad. It's more my happy space than anything else, and I know a lot of other people that feel similarly. The way you are Little isn't ever going to be exactly the same as someone else's, but that's not what matters at the end of the day.

 

I always say that the only real rule to being Little is that you want to identify as it. Everything else is going to fluctuate. Just do what works for you, and what makes you happy. You're absolutely fine. <3  

[HeCallsMePrincess]

of course you're still a little! everyone is different. there is no right or wrong way to be yourself.

[BumbleBeeJane]

Yes, I struggle with depression and self harm. I am still a little. It's who I am. 

Be yourself, and if you need someone to talk to. Don't be afraid to message me.   

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

Oh gods yes! We are all a little broken, it doesn't make us less little! Little Space is different for everyone! As I always say: Littles are like snowflakes; all unique and all beautiful

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

Be who you are, act how you act, don't fight it. You'll feel better, which I know even just the little bit of better helps, a lot.

[Dumbledork'sPrincess]

I used to struggle with self harm and I still do with depression alongside and eating disorder. I've always been a little ans always will be

[PapaMax]

 

 

always say that the only real rule to being Little is that you want to identify as it. Everything else is going to fluctuate.

 

Amen!

[Guest thequeenslittle]

Yes!! I personally battled with depression and self harm for years. Even once i was in the incredible relationship im currently in i still struggled with it a lot for a couple years and it wasnt until i allowed myself to be in my little space and identify myself as a little that i actually felt a bit better it didnt fix everything but it helped a lot because i felt more like i found somewhere i belonged and felt safe. You can be a little no matter what has happened in your life, is happening in your life or ever does happen in your life so long as its what makes you happy!

[SkunkPrincess]

Ofcourse you can! Everyone struggles with something in their life and everyone can be a little!