I messed up...

[Kitten(Little)]

So. Yesterday I had a very bad day. My mom had a heart attack and I had to go to work and it was just very emotional day. So my daddy decided that he was gonna treat me to play time to help me feel better. While we were playing though daddy got really turned on, but I wasn't able to help him. So this morning I was gonna be really good and give him play time first thing, he asked me to record a sexy video for him, I don't like doing videos and he caught on really quick and said it was find that he lost the mood and didn't wanna play. But I know it's not true. I'm really upset that I upset my daddy, is there anyway I can cheer him up?

[PrincessClara]

Awww I'm sorry that happened and that you are dealing with so many hard big things.

 

For your Daddy....I know you said you don't like doing videos, maybe you could take some pictures in different cute outfits and things and send to him. or just spoil him in playtime. Though really, he should understand you not being in the mood really...your mom having a heart attack is a really scary thing!

[Guest MisterBrownEyes]

Talk to your Daddy about what happened. He sounds like a good Daddy who has your interests at heart. I am sure he will understand, and you will both be able to come to a decision that is mutually beneficial to both of you.

 

Talking to him openly will make him understand how you feel, and will also be useful for making sure you can both move forward from this point together.

 

Wishing you well and that you're Mom has a speedy recovery

[Thequeen]

Alright so I am going to try to give you mommy dom opinion here okay?

 

So at one point my little boy wanted to make sure I wasn't just here for sex so he said I could have sex for what lasted to be three weeks (he didn't give me a time length at the beginning nor did he even tell me this was what he was doing but back on subject). I didn't ever in that period actually like physically need sex even though my mind was going absolutely nuts. I knew I wasn't there for sex but I knew I was snappy and cranky and it wasn't about the release or anything because me and my little don't actually do it that often. And finally I sat down and had a good long think about it and released it wasn't about the sex itself or the release it was more about feeling like 1.) I had that option to have it whenever I wanted. and 2.) He loved and cared for me in these intimate moments. So I know guys need it whereas girls don't really but I think your daddy might be having the same thing I was. Its not about the release but the emotions behind it. He has power over you (to some extent, everyone is different on how much but he has some) and now hes losing part of it (maybe all of it if you two only have power exchange in the bedroom) so hes probably feeling lost, confused, and distant.  And its the same thing with the I'm fine comment, hes confused and distant so you need to help your daddy a bit here. It doesn't even need to be sex. You need to help him see you are still his little, you still love him ( if not love care for him depending on how developed your relationship is), you still want him as your daddy and involved with your life. and honestly to show him you mean it you should give your booty a good shaking for the camera and give him a nice surprise with a big old grin on your face like the little he feel in love with.

 

Humans are weird and faith and trust waiver in the most important moments of life sadly, and I think that's all that's happening with your daddy. He just doesn't want to lose you because your being so big and mature because of your mom's situation. That's what I think but you only posted a short little blurb here so we don't know what all lead up to this what you were acting like, what he was, or just any other combination of factors but either way its something to consider. I hope it helped at least a little bit, and I am more than willing to talk with you about this or anything at all including your mom if you want  just pm me

-TheQueen 

[Guest QueenJellybean]

Okay, I'm sorry, but this is an absolutely terrible situation you find yourself in all around. I'm really sorry to hear about your mother; as someone who deals regularly with medical issues in my family, I know how hard it can be. 

 

Now, I may be reading this wrong, but the thing that worries me about your post is that you seem to feel like you need to apologize and cheer up/make up to your partner for not doing something you didn't want to do in the first place? I can understand being upset about not being able to have the chance to make your partner feel fulfilled sexually, but I'm having trouble understanding why you would need to apologize for feeling uncomfortable about sending a video to him. You clearly stated that you don't like sending videos, and it doesn't sound like he was forcing you to take the video. However, I want you to know that you don't have to apologize for your comfort levels. As long as your partner isn't making you feel like you are doing something wrong for not wanting to do something you clearly aren't comfortable with, I see no problem in trying to help him in that way. 

 

Even then, however, the only way you're going to know what he wants and the only way he's going to know what you want from him is if you sit down and communicate with him. Tell him what you told us, but make sure that you don't leave out that making the sexy video made you feel uncomfortable. If you want to help him sexually, suggest other ways that you /would/ be comfortable with. But talk to him.