New to ddlg lifestyle, where can I look into it..

[Killtwitchdaddy89]

Okay so here's the skinny; I have legit no experience with ddlg lifestyle, I don't know if I'd make a good daddy or not, I am a switch most of the time and the I'm kinda lost... Thankfully I had a nice little point me in this direction, in closing cuz I want to keep this short and sweet I just need help when it comes to finding out if I'm even daddy material.. thank you for taking the time to read my woes.

[Guest Prat]

There are many useful posts here and on peoples tumblrs you can check out.

[dreadybaby]

Have you taken the bdsm test at www.bdsmtest.org? It'll give you a better idea of what you are or could be.

[Guest ZenDD]

What's your natural inclination to DDlg? What interests you about it? Whatever that is, follow that tendency. If you're finding it difficult to know what this is about, or how you relate to it, then it probably isn't for you. You shouldn't have to try hard to adapt to it. If you have a genuine interest, there are numerous websites, including this one, with much information and people with relative stories. All you have to do is click and read, click on something else and read, repeat.

 

Follow what feels natural. If this is a part of you, then it shouldn't be too hard to find a direction. Don't overthink it. Follow your instinct. Good luck!

Edited September 30, 2016 by ZenDD