DD/LG Poly

[HisCreation]

I'm a bit late to this, but my hubby and I are successfully poly. However mu daddy's wife is on the fence and does cause us issues at times. It's in some folks and not others.

 

As far as a little having two daddys... that sounds difficult to me. I only take instruction from daddy. And hubby is a switch so we have a 'bedroom' policy of submission for me in play only.

[eboe]

I've done the poly thing for a little bit, and consider myself poly, but the problem was that I was secondary to both of the women, and there was no interest from either of them in meeting up. It was just a normal BSDM thing as well, with no DD/lg dynamic. I am interested in trying a poly type thing both in and out of the DD/lg dynamic... it would be fun if we found another little so she and my lg could be friends and perhaps from there proceed on to a potential triad. But my lg also knows that I am very open to the idea of her seeing other men as long as we talk about it before hand.

[liddlesestra]

I've never been in a poly relationship, but I've always considered myself to be poly. I'm new to identifying that way, though. Another part of me I've learned to accept. (u_u ) I haven't seriously tried practicing because most people seem to be a man and woman, in a monogamous relationship, looking for a third girl for sessy fun times. I'm interested in learning more about group relationships, since most information I come across is related to triad and vee dynamics. It's pretty cool to see that there's a decent amount of people in this community that are, at least, open minded to poly.

[tiemeupwithyourlove]

I'm only in a relationship with my Daddy, but I have play friends (4 of them. Yay!) and an uncle. One of my play friends, though, has a mommy and a daddy. I've no idea how their arrangement works in the sack, but I know that if he disrespects one of them he'll get spanked by both because he's indirectly been disrespectful against both. And they had some problem in the beginning when he asked both of them at separate times about one thing and got two different answers. But now, he can just ask one of them if it's okay and if it's a bigger thing he asks them together. 

 

I've never had sex with my play friends' daddies or mommies, but I think that mostly because it's never been on the table. I've done scenes with my play friends though, while my Daddy and their Daddy or/and Mommy watched. Mostly we just play with toys (stuffies and legos  ) and talk with each other like normal people.Though, if you're being naughty and you get caught by a big (doesn't matter if it's your Daddy), you're going to be spanked by him/her. Not with a belt or a cane, but a slipper or something nearby. 

 

 

I could talk all day about this but to sum it up, having someone other than your Daddy to play with is the best when it works. But there isn't room for jealously. 

[Daddy'sSpacePrincess]

My Daddy and I are polyamorous. However, she usually prefers that I don't date men, but she is okay with a long distance relationship with a man. Which I am sort of looking for (irrelevant). I had a conversation with a Daddy today who made me feel like I couldn't be a devoted and committed Little to more than one partner. 

 

Does any one else agree with this? I personally do not. I've been in a relationship with more than one person before. That relationship didn't work out, but while it was occurring my Daddy and I found that it kind of improved our relationship. We cherished the time we had together even more than we had before and as a result, we were happier when we got to spend more quality time together. Basically, I want to know if polyamory and DD/LG are something that can work. Opinions?

[Bull]

I'm not a Daddy, but I figured I'd chime in!

 

Sometimes I fantasize about a harem of submissives who all exist to serve and depend upon my guidance. Most of the fulfillment I get from being a Master is being the rock for my submissive's emotions, and using my control to help them find serenity. And as fulfilling as that is for me, it’s also a lot of work, and a dynamic clover and I are still perfecting. We are simply unable to include another submissive in our dynamic at this point. We have to take care of us.

 

So, my ideal would be a core duo with a larger extended family. I’d be the Master, of course, and clover would be my second-in-command. In the extended family, we would have several submissives, kittens, littles, and switches who are all family— but who are not part of our core duo. I would mentor them, and we would play with our extended family often, in which we have established relationships, affection, and roles- with clover and I at the top of the hierarchy.

[TinyItalian]

Just a thought; when you enter a poly relationship, no one should feel like anyone is ruining it or tearing it apart. It should be about being stronger together and supporting each other! Poly CG/L relationships tend to be less spoken about but they are pretty great if they all work together. I would totally be in a platonic poly CG/L family, but I tend not to be jealous. Usually, if you really care about them and they care about you, it will work out!

[Bull]

I made a family tree for my ideal dynamic.

http://i.imgur.com/V2LJ07f.png

[Guest Sae]

I made a family tree for my ideal dynamic.

 

http://i.imgur.com/V2LJ07f.png

Likes your art. <3 as usually 

[Cherry41]

That is similar to what I am looking for: Daddy, then a Mommy just underneath him, then me and another lg just under her. Daddy is my age. I would want my Mommy to be my age or a little older...same with the other lg. I wouldn't mind us having Uncles and others in the community as friends too.

[WolvenMistress]

The way my poly arrangement works with my littles is I'm their mommy, my babygirl is also dating another babygirl, and my little boy has had other partners besides me, although at the moment he's only dating me but is perfectly allowed to see other partners at any time. Monogamy just isn't for us and this is what makes sense to us. But just like monogamy isn't for everyone, polyamory isn't for everyone either. It's up to you to think about all the options carefully and decide what you're most comfortable with.

[special-blackbitkitten]

 

I'm not a Daddy, but I figured I'd chime in!

 

Sometimes I fantasize about a harem of submissives who all exist to serve and depend upon my guidance. Most of the fulfillment I get from being a Master is being the rock for my submissive's emotions, and using my control to help them find serenity. And as fulfilling as that is for me, it’s also a lot of work, and a dynamic clover and I are still perfecting. We are simply unable to include another submissive in our dynamic at this point. We have to take care of us.

 

So, my ideal would be a core duo with a larger extended family. I’d be the Master, of course, and clover would be my second-in-command. In the extended family, we would have several submissives, kittens, littles, and switches who are all family— but who are not part of our core duo. I would mentor them, and we would play with our extended family often, in which we have established relationships, affection, and roles- with clover and I at the top of the hierarchy.

 

 

I definitely think about having this kind of dynamic sometimes, I'd like to have a harem of pets that I can play with and love, in a sort of platonic way who would live in with me but also have their own lives and relationships outside of the pet dynamic. One of my friends actually jokingly calls me his mistress sometimes and I feel like being a mistress/pimp/pet owner is kinda something I'd like but unfortunately my Daddy is strictly monogamous and very scared of being cheated on/left due to his past relationships.. so

[LunaPrincess11]

I wouldn't be able to share my daddy in the relationship aspect, I would sexually or in play. I have no problem seeing daddy playing with another girl and him visa versa but at the end of the day I want to be the only one that goes home with daddy. Jealousy is really attractive to me but I wouldn't want to push it and create barriers between him and I. The ideas hot to think he could have me or someone else taking care of his needs constantly sure, but I'm a greedy girl. Daddies mine when it comes to love, I wouldn't be able to. I think maybe if I didn't love him I could, when I was younger I did at different points. I think it's completely different if you actually sentimentally love the person.

[LunaPrincess11]

I'm looking for another little that would be interested in being with me and my daddy

I'm looking for another little that would be interested in being with me and my daddy

Ha! I'm looking for the same thing for my daddy and I actually

[Ebony Fruit Bat]

I wouldn't mind being poly. I think it would help because I'm am introvert. I would be okay as long as I was tried just as kindly and fair in comparison of any other little my CG may have. I'm not the jealous sort. I would rather have the other partner and I be friends (platonic). I'm not into competing for affection or temporary attention, or gifts. As long as those two were straight and we all had good communication between each other I'd be a happy duckling.

 

Having a Mommy and a Daddy or two Daddys would be interesting. It isn't a circumstance I have personal experience doing in the past.

[Lollipox]

[LittleTeacup]

....sometimes I fantasize about having a mommy and a daddy. A well established sweet hearted couple looking for a little girl they can adopt.

[Little kaiya]