How to ask daddy to make rules??

[littleanonboy]

So I'm new to the DD/lg scene. I want my daddy to make me rules and consequences/rewards so that I feel like he cares about me and what I do. I also really want his attention, any kind of attention. So I wanna know rules that I can break when I'm feeling playful but also rules to keep my boundaries. I just don't know how to ask him to do this for me because we are both so new to the DD/lg thing.

 

(PS. we aren't really into me acting younger or playing with toys or drinking from sippy cups, etc, like average DD/lg couples are. just the dominance, ownership, and control. I do act a little cuter than usual to get his attention though because I love being babied. :3)

[Dorky]

if it were me I'd just say "pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase"

[Guest]

Ask him to sit down and you guys together make rules. You both have to make them he can't just do it himself. Make rules and punishment and rewards all together

[SpoiledBaby603]

I told him if he wants me to behave than I need to know what is expected of me.

He got right on it!

[Guest TwinklingSpace]

I would just ask him.

 

Tell him what you wrote, that you want rules and boundaries because it makes you feel little and to you shows that he cares.

 

And if the word "rules" scare him, then change it to a chart or schedule.

 

I recently did this exact thing with my daddy. We just got together and I asked him about rules and there wasn't that many. So I asked him to make me either rules, boundaries or a schedule. So that way I would feel like I had something to go off of and have stability. I also said it makes me feel little having him setting up things for me to follow. So he's working on a schedule for me.

 

And I agree with what Arya said. Sit down together and make the rules/boundaries/schedule together. It's your relationship, both of yours, you need to come together and figure out what works best for both of you.

[Thequeen]

Based on what I read and interpretted, which obviously can be wrong, I am kind of thinking you might just be a sub not a little. I mean there are obviously varies levels of age- adult babies, littles, middles so perhaps your a middle, but even middles do have certain aspects that are more childish or whatever. So perhaps your just a playful sub.Just a thought to consider, espeically if you do get rules and end up hating them, to me that would be a flag that your not into the DDLG scene.

 

But regardless I would listen to everyone else and just go talk to him about it and ask him if you can make it together because as a mommy who has an extremely busy little- making this by yourself while considering their limits, schedules, needs, and wants is really really really hard. So cut them some slack and help them out!

 

Hope this helps!

-TheQueen

[DaddyPenguin]

I would have to agree with thequeen. You sound more sub than a little. In my opinion, experience, in a DDlg one of the first thing a Daddy does once he knows his little better is make rules.