A few questions...

[littleanonboy]

So recently I have told my boyfriend that I am into the DD/lg lifestyle and he is into it. I just have a few questions about how to go about doing it and stuff. I don't necessarily call myself a little because I don't act younger than my age. I don't play with toys or drink from sippy cups. If you do, sweet! Go you!! But I'm just into calling him Daddy and being spanked and babied and him being completely dominant over me. I also love being talked to like I'm something precious...Again, I'm new to this stuff, so please don't think I'm being ignorant or saying stuff wrong.

 

1. How to get daddy's attention?? I always try to do things that get him to call me cute or baby me but he is very good at hiding his feelings and not talking about what he actually thinks. I want to do something that will make him give me the attention that I want so badly, but I don't know what.

 

2. Punishment?? I really like discipline, okay. I love being talked to in a stern voice and being punished. But I just can't find anything naughty enough to get to him. I bite him and tease him but again, he hides his emotions and doesn't say what he's really thinking. I want some daddies opinions on what makes them want to "punish" their littles?

 

3. Friends? I told my best friend about this and he is cool with it. Should I tell all my friends just so they are aware that the way we are is okay and not abusive? I've heard my friends say they think it's abusive to be into DD/lg. I want to educate them and let them know I'm 100% consensual and so is he. I'm afraid they'll judge me. And I know it's not their business anyway.

 

4. How to act around daddy?? I'm always trying my hardest to act helpless and cute to get him to hold me more and it works. I was wondering if any daddies can tell me what it is that their littles do that they find cute.

 

AGAIN, I'm new to this. If I've offended anyone with my wording or if I seem ignorant, I really am sorry, I'm just so new to this, please correct me if I've slipped up.

 

Thanks to anyone who replies.

[lilsnoopy]

so i'm a little but i'm really close to my daddy and know what he likes so I'll try to leave the best advice I can.

 

1. i would say break rules, that would get attention, just the wrong kind of attention. Dressing up cute might work, or crawling into his lap and hugging him maybe.

2. communication, tell him you need more structure and a punishment/rewards system. Set out what you want to happen and see if he will do it or at least compromise. Daddies are amazing but they aren't telepathic even if they act it sometimes.

3. I only tell any fellow little or open minded friends. some people just believe what they believe and you can't change that, but you friends might be different. I don't know them, it's your call. I would just read your audience and tread lightly as some people just don't get it and don't want to get it..

4. He finds it cute when I act little, but I'm very little and you don't seem as into that portion. It honestly varies from daddy to daddy. Wearing his clothes maybe, like a really oversized shirt? My daddy likes when I struggle pronouncing words and they come out littley. Or when I bob my head side to side when I attempt to sing.

[littleanonboy]

Thanks! This helps! I also wonder how to ask him to make rules and consequences and rewards for me. I want to feel under control and like he cares what I do. I don't know how to bring it up. And I wanna feel rewarded and appreciated when I do good things for him. I don't know how to randomly ask him to do this?