All alone

[AngelLove]

So my daddy is absolutely amazing, we recently met in real life and had the best time ever, on Thursday his father took his phone for some reason and I havent spoken to him since. I feel so lost and alone, I keep hoping he'll text me or somthing but still nufin, I don't know what to do...

[I Love Pinkie Pie (Daddy)]

I don't think his father will take his phone from him forever. He may be grounding him for few days then everything will go back to normal. How long haven't you heard from him?

[lilsnoopy]

I always stress when my daddy is working the last shift and I have to go to bed without him and it feels like suddenly time goes slower and I check my phone to see if he said anything just out of habit and that I miss him. The best thing I can suggest is to find some way to spend your time. Having a good distraction is key, try to make it something positive. For example, I make wish lists of stuff I like for by birthday and christmas, look at recipes I want to try, I color and watch little shows, do homework early or extra study, writing posts on here, sort my outrageous bow collection, clean up my makeup counter, play with makeup (my eyeliner game is strong ^.^), walk my dog while jamming out to disney music, ex. Just thinks that make me happy and are good for me. It makes the time go by faster and I feel like I accomplished something so it's twice as good. You don't have to do the things I like, just any hobbies you have, working on that hobby should help you feel better. Try to motivate yourself by thinking about how even though he's gone you can still do things so he'll be happy when he's back. I usually send daddy messages while he's working later and I'm about to sleep about all the good stuff I did before bed and it makes me happy to tell him and it makes him happy to read that night when he gets home late. So don't forget simple things like brushing your teeth or taking drinks when you need to. 

I also have a in person awesome littlish friend that goes to the park with me or invites me over to watch little movies and color and eat snacks together. That makes it a lot easier when daddy isn't there. It makes me feel loved and happy and little. If you have a person like that I suggest lot's of play dates. 

Hope this helps

Edited September 25, 2016 by lilsnoopy

[AngelLove]

Its only been two days so maybe he will get it back in a day or two, and ive been trying my best to stay busy with studying and stuffs but i get lonely 

[Mikaitaku]

how old is he that his father would be able to take away his phone? I am sure he will find a way to get a hold of you soon

[Trash Queen]

Yeah what.

 

Is he not an adult? Is your daddy underage? Are you underage?

[Guest ZenDD]

Yeah what.

 

Is he not an adult? Is your daddy underage? Are you underage?

 

My thoughts, exactly.

Edited September 25, 2016 by ZenDD

[Guest ZenDD]

Its only been two days so maybe he will get it back in a day or two, and ive been trying my best to stay busy with studying and stuffs but i get lonely 

 

I know this may be tough to hear, but you might want to reconsider this person as your Daddy if he isn't even old enough and/or capable of managing his own life and still requires or is susceptible to discipline from parents.

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

I'm with most people on this... If he's young enough to get grounded - He probably isn't mature enough to take on the responsibility of being a DD. I'm not going to grill you about your age but understand that this conversation... kinda put your foot in your mouth. 

 

All i will say is young people have many more things to worry about than BDSM and finding a Daddy. Use your youth to discover yourself, find who you are. There's plenty of time to worry about guys after you build yourself a solid foundation in life. Everyone is welcome here but we can't protect you from all the creeps that may pray on you (that are in every corner of every culture - Not just DDLG) and because of that - We don't allow underaged people participate on the boards. 

 

You're profile says you're 19, you're clearly in school (as you have said you're keeping busy with studying) - Maybe there's more important things to worry about right now. Stressing yourself out over a boy is counter productive.

[Michael]

Why is his father taking his phone? Is your daddy not an adult or something? That's really really strange.

 

I actually want a satisfactory answer out of you here. This looks very suspicious (I hope both you and your daddy aren't minors...).

[Lme want cookies]

It so hard to find a good daddy these days

[Thequeen]

I can understand where everyone is coming from in accordance with age and just individual life. But as someone who was in the same situation I can completely agree with what she is feeling. I mean the boy could be 18 but still living at home with parents in which case if he did something they technically could take his phone away. I lived at home until only a couple months ago so well into me being 19 and I was always the good daughter but my older sisters weren't as well behaved so they both would lose privileges if they went against our house rules. My mother said that it was her right to enforce them since she pays for everything and if we didn't like it to leave. None of us did until recently because we were saving up. But in that time period she paid for our phones so she could take them and none of us could really say no because it was true, they were her's in all technicality.

 

Hun, I know its gonna be hard to be a bit younger in this community, I am the same way. My little and I met when we were 15 and have been going steady since then (started as just dating and once we were of age started this new relationship); its hard- your going to have the haters and all with good reason. Because they are all right in that school is important as well as knowing yourself and who you are that way your relationship with this guy can be healthy and beneficial to both of you. Dont lose faith in him, keep waiting for him to get back its okay, I did the same thing every day for an entire year. And honesty, that year was complete crap. I do mean crap. But it was crap because I made it be crap, I didn't do anything expect work, pout, and mope around until I got a message from him. So dont forget how to have fun, dont waste everyday waiting for his message. Go have fun, do your studies, spend some little time with your online friends or by yourself; and when you get his message be as happy as you want, tell him you missed him, do everything and anything you want, dont hold back. That is the only way you are going to feel okay and make the most of your time.

 

Just live your life as you want to until he comes back, he will come back if he cares for you. Dont let any anyone steal your happily ever after, whatever that may be. (Well so long as it doesnt hurt anyone then, no offense, but you cant do that, sorry) I wish you all the luck and if you want a friend in this time you can add me and we can talk of anything else I can relate and would be more than willing to talk and give advice.

-TheQueen

Edited September 25, 2016 by Thequeen