Tips & Advice please everyone!! Also.... Any SERIOUS LTR UK Daddy's??????

[✿♛Princess✿♛ Harley Q ❣]

Hey so I know this all takes time and I am more than willing to put that in to meet the right person. I've spoken to a guy on here and he was all rules and punishment but never cared and nurtured when I needed someone there. Then I spoke to another guy who visited me when I was poorly and bought stuffies and a colouring book and thought that entitled him to an evening spent together with no further obligation, and I'm just wondering are there any REAL Daddy's??? I feel like I am getting close to the point of generalising and just giving in to think that everyone is ultimately just down for the sex. I do have EUPD and ANXIETY and 2 children, so I get I'm not the easiest little in the world to have a relationship with, and I'm a bit of a freak, but surely I don't deserve to be sexualised and objectified for the rest of my life. I'm loyal, loving caring and honest. I am genuine and just don't understand. I seem to be the only one who can't find someone who loves them for who they are. Maybe I too needy I don't know. I don't know much anymore... tips

[Guest Officedad]

With any kind of online interactions you will get the chancers, the pic hunters and the overly protective ones. Just take your time to get to know people, use the block feature if needed as well as the report feature if it's breaking rules.

 

This is by far the best community I've been a part of.

[Princess-P]

If your lonely and feel you are ready for a relationship don't put so much stock into titles. Just because he says he's a Daddy doesn't make him one just as if someone doesn't identify as a Daddy doesn't mean he ISNT one. Branch out. Use dating sites not intended for kinksters or BDSM. Regular dating sites like POF or whatever give you just as much of a chance in finding a Daddy as kink sites or communities like this do.

 

Many people are not even aware that CG/l is a thing. That doesn't stop them from having caregiver qualities that they don't even know about. So look into the vanilla world and you may just find your Daddy. you will also have a way better chance of finding something in person. Long distance relationshios are a lot if work.

[Guest MissNMTX]

Everyone has this problem sweetheart. Take your time and trust your intuition. Sometimes we all want to just give up, but maybe it is as simple as wading through a lot of frogs to get to the prince. *hugs*

[HeCallsMePrincess]

I think you might be putting too much effort into finding a daddy that you're not open to anything else and that could be the issue right there.

[The Alpha Ace]

Hey PHQ,

 

I feel on a similar level about Littles in the fact that most seem to want fantasy as opposed to something real, and after they get bored of the fantasy they move on to the next guy, I know for sure their are some genuine daddies, who won't even think about the sexual aspect until they've had a few IRL dates, I am the same, with me it doesn't even come up in messaging until we both comfortably know and respect, and have potentially skpyed and such

 

Anyway I'd love to chat to you and make friends as the community as a whole is pretty big and its good to have more friends in it

 

Talk soon I hope