bring pacifiers into our dynamic

[raptorkitty]

Me and daddy are new to the dynamic. We've been getting down the basics. However during our first talk of DDlg, i brought up that pacis and diapers are used. I went to say that I don't think id be interested in diapers, but he cut me off and said "yeah i don't think i would like diapers or pacifiers used in our relationship either." Ever since than i've been terrified to bring it back up (to use pacis)

 

How have you bought up using pacifiers or onesies? any tips? Personal experiences? 

Edited September 22, 2016 by Daddy'sBrat666

[HeCallsMePrincess]

Actually he caught me chewing on something one day and decided it was a good idea.

[Petal]

Yeah they keep my oral fixation at bay.  Helps me stick to a diet, too.  They serve a lot of purposes, and maybe you can just find one that really helps you and bring it up that way?

Edited September 22, 2016 by Petal

[Guest ZenDD]

You "brought up that pacis and diapers are used." Only if you want to. There is no one way to experience DDlg. Make it what you want. Follow what feels natural. If it doesn't feel natural and normal, it's not for you. If you're interested in pacis, buy yourself one and try it. If you like it, talk to him about it. If you don't, there's nothing to talk about.

[Guest Littlepup]

I thought I was too big for pacis for a while

but i had a bad oral fixation thing going on and kept wanting to suck daddy's thumb and stuff

so I recently told him that I kinda want a paci and he said we can get me a paci

 

I dont have baby onsies but some of my favorite clothes are a gray romper with rainbow stripes (you can find cute stuff like that if u look in juniors size clothes, i'm thin/average and I just buy XL and i fit in junior sizes) I also have footie pajama onsie. 

 

I got some pacis at walmart the other day to try, but I ordered an adult size one online and waiting for it. 

 

Daddy kisses me on the paci all the time and i only just bought those a couple days ago. he's so sweet 

[raptorkitty]

I thought I was too big for pacis for a while

but i had a bad oral fixation thing going on and kept wanting to suck daddy's thumb and stuff

so I recently told him that I kinda want a paci and he said we can get me a paci

 

I dont have baby onsies but some of my favorite clothes are a gray romper with rainbow stripes (you can find cute stuff like that if u look in juniors size clothes, i'm thin/average and I just buy XL and i fit in junior sizes) I also have footie pajama onsie. 

 

I got some pacis at walmart the other day to try, but I ordered an adult size one online and waiting for it. 

 

Daddy kisses me on the paci all the time and i only just bought those a couple days ago. he's so sweet 

 

 

Me and daddy had a talk last night, he said he'd of course try it. so we are going on the weekend to get some. YAYY!, except im not to sure how the baby ones feel. Have you had any problems with the baby ones so far? 

Edited September 22, 2016 by Daddy'sBrat666

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

I prefer the adult sized ones because I find the smaller baby ones give me a weird sore spot in the roof of my mouth.

 

I had horrible nighttime anxiety which causes me to clench my jaw really bad. We tried did some research and tried pacis and for whatever reason they work amazing. No more uncomfortable night guard, no waking up with a sore jaw, no more headaches that are caused by !y bruxism!

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

I use my for a lot of reasons, the biggest, my binkie helps with depression and anxiety. If you have a reason, more than just wanting to be cute and adorable, then try to explain it the best you can and get your feelings about it across. Weather it helps keep you calm or stops you from subconsciously sticking everything in your mouth. Also remember to receipt his feelings too, maybe he'll understand but still be uncomfortable. In which case, there shouldn't be a reason you can't have one, but out of receipt for him you wouldn't use it around him.(or even use it in public with him around)

Edited September 23, 2016 by CrazyLittleBuggaBoo