Introducing my bf to the DDlg lifestyle? (:

[sparklecatz]

So I'm really into the ddlg everything and have been for quite a long while, but kinda nervous to how my boyfriend will react. I've been with him for two years, and we have really kinky sex so he's usually pretty open minded, but he has specifically said to me multiple times that the whole daddy thing wierd him out. We kinda already have a dynamic kinda like that already though, he calls me his little girl and kitten and punishes me and I talk to him in a little kid voice like all the time without even trying and he thinks it's adorable. A few days ago when we were fucking, I called him daddy and he started fucking me harder. Afterwards he said he "didn't mind that", i did it again the next day and he told me it turns him on because he can tell I get horny because of it and I feel like him and I could get really into that but Because he initially thought it was so wierd I'm nervous as to how he'll react if I try to take it a bit further and don't know how to go about it. I'm going about it so far through sex, cause that's where he's most open minded. He just doesn't seem to understand what it is or what Any of it means. Any advice? (: Edited September 19, 2016 by sparklecatz

[MilkyUsagi]

I'm just acting naturally with my boyfriend actually, I don't need to tell him about I'm a mddle/little cause I act like one and he likes it and he cuddles me and we do everything fine even withoud explaning nothing ewe I don't wear diapers or use pacifers (I'm thinking about collecting them for my bag as pendants actually) and so I don't think I have to explain anything if he acts like a daddy naturally ewe you can try this way!

[Guest QueenJellybean]

Look at resources together. Bring him to this site, or something similar, and look through the articles together. Browse the forums together. Communicate openly. Read articles and break them down together.

 

Once you make it less about educating him, and more about learning and growing together, it gets a lot easier. Good luck! 

[babygirl702]

im havin the same exact problem. idk how he will react or take it.

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

I second BabyBelugaBelle! That's pretty much exactly what I'd say lol