how do I come out to my boyfriend about me being a little?

[babygirl702]

Im in a happy relationship with my boyfriend and we have a baby together. he knows everything about me except that im a little. I dont know how to tell him. what if he doesnt accept me? What if he thinks im a freak?

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

Baby steps and lots of information. Sit him down, tell him that you love him and that you want him to know everything about you. Pick out some good educational sites and articles ahead of time, show him the forums, the more he understands, the better! Explain that this is who you are, that this is where you believe you belong (with us Littles ) and ASK him how he feels about it. DD/lg isn't everyone's bag and prepare yourself to do a lot of explaining. Sadly, there's a ton of misinformation and propaganda against our lifestyle because people don't understand it so your biggest obstacle is making sure you address that and ensure he knows the facts.

 

Be prepared that he may not be into it - I doubt he will think you're a freak but it may not be his thing. You can't force this on anyone obviously.

 

You guys have a baby; that's a way bigger deal. Remember that being Little doesn't mean you have to have a Daddy Dom, doesn't mean you have to live your life as a sub - doesn't mean it has to be a sexual thing either! Be giggly, Kick your feets, pout and have fun with it! You have a fantastic excuse to be on the floor colouring and playing with stuffies - you're a mom!

 

Lots o' little luv <3

Dolly

[babygirl702]

thank yew! that helped a lot!