Need advice

[Daddy_Ethan]

So my little and i have been in the ddlg community for about a year now and at first it was great but now it just seems like she picks and chooses little space and my little just doesn't act little unless she wants something or wants me to do something for her. Is that how outs suppose to be or something?

[Cuddly Bumblebee]

I think that doesn't sound too good. Maybe she is taking advantage that way? Does she get what she wants, behaving like that?

I can't say what it means, when someones behavior changes that way. Because my own has stayed the way it is. 

If I would be in that situation, I would want my partner to be sincere. Not just act someway to get something from me. 

 

You should talk with her and ask what it's about. And tell her how you feel about that. There can be some misunderstanding?

[Guest]

Some littles can control when they go into little space, but since she is only doing it to get what she wants thats very sneaky and mean.

 

Probably best to sit her down and have a serious talk about it. Don't let her start using her little self to wiggle out of it either. Talk it out and hopefully it'll be okay after . But if not it maybe time to move on