When daddy ignores you

[PrincessEevee97]

Ok so my daddy has been ignoring me for the past week and then he ignored me for two weeks before that....I have been feeling really lonely and have cried a lot....I think I made him mad but everyone keeps telling me its cause daddy is just being a meanie.....how would you feel if your daddy had been ignoring you??? Would you be mad at your daddy??? What would you???? I don't want to leave daddy but I don't want him to keep ignoring me it makes me cry a lot and I don't want to cry anymore

[Sirsumwun]

That is really not a healthy relationship.. Deprivation is an incredibly unhealthy way to express anger or other emotions.  My suggestion would be to sit him down and have a serious conversation with him.  You may need to take control of the conversation and make sure he understands you concerns and what it does to you. 

 

If he doesn't adjust then you'll need to adjust.......with someone else.

[Guest]

Tell him how it makes you feel . If you did and he is still doing it , time to get out and move on. Its abusive to cut off communication like that. It's not a punishment at all . And no matter how mad he is he should even ignore you and make you cry.

[Guest Zips]

If this keeps up, I'd be inclined to seriously reconsider the relationship. Well to be honest, if anyone ignored me for half a month, I wouldn't need to reconsider anything, I'd drop them like a fly.

 

An absent daddy is no daddy at all.

 

If a daddy is absent due to problems in the relationship, all that tells me is that he doesn't have the wherewithal to actually deal with the problems head on, but instead hoping they'll go away if he closes his eyes and pretends not to see them.

[Trash Queen]

Woah there that's a form of emotional abuse. You need to address this now as not-okay or you're out of there.

 

I mean you have to make your own choices. But it would be extremely unwise to stay in that sort of dynamic.