littles with long distance daddies/mommies?

[daddyslittlewaby]

hey loves   

 

so, i'm super lonely because daddy travels for work constantly for semi-long periods of time (2-4 weeks), basically forcing me to be in adult space 24/7. we attempt over the phone and it works, but i'm too used to being a clingy baby who's around daddy during most of her free time; which makes the whole phone thing frustrating :/ how do all of you deal with being away from your daddies/mommies? is it also hard for you to get into little space without the physical attention?

 

 

[Dumbledork'sPrincess]

My Daddy lives in Tennessee and I live in England... that's over 4,000 miles. The last time I saw Daddy irl was December 2015, but he is coming over at the start of October this year <3

 

It's hard sometimes, I miss him like crazy. But we Skype pretty much everyday. It's difficult to do little activities over Skype sometimes; we both have the same colouring book so we do that together sometimes, we read to each other, play heads up, hangman, tic tac toe.

 

But it's hard cos I miss him like crazy

[LittlePandaAmily]

I had a long-Distance relationship too. Try to make plans when he gets back, that way the time flows by a little faster. That's how it worked for me

[Guest QueenJellybean]

Long-distance relationships are really hard, but they aren't impossible. Good for you for not giving up because of distance! Not everyone can do that.

 

My Caregiver lives across the country (literally), and my Dominant lives in the South. They both visit me about three times a year, but it's obviously not ideal and the majority of our relationship is based over the phone and internet. 

 

We communicate our needs a lot to each other, because we're forced to. But being honest about your expectations and abilities is really important. I can't always answer my texts while I'm working or at school, and my partners need to know and respect this. We can't always do our scheduled date nights, but we have plans in place for when that happens. Using apps and technology to our advantage helps a lot. Apps like Couple and Avocado are great for long-distance relationships. Websites like Togethertube and Rabbit serve the same purpose. Use the tools around you.

 

And don't forget the importance of physical intimacy. Send handwritten letters in the mail. Do care packages when you have the money. Send flowers, or a pizza. (Both things you can do from anywhere!) Send a shirt with your scent on it. Send a stuffed animal that reminds you of them. Little, physical gestures to remind them that you're real, you're tangible, and you care matter so much more than you'd expect. 

[Guest sirslittlecupcake]

I have almond distance as a well I just try to act little when we can psychically see each other so it's not so bad. Phone calls and skype help a lot my Daddy works 2 jobs so I don't get to talk much but that's ok

[daddyslittlewaby]

I have almond distance as a well I just try to act little when we can psychically see each other so it's not so bad. Phone calls and skype help a lot my Daddy works 2 jobs so I don't get to talk much but that's ok

I'm so sorry, love. Having a daddy that works a lot + is super far is always really hard, especially when you wanna be cuddled up under him all the time. Or at least talk to them 24/7, but you can't do either  

[daddyslittlewaby]

Long-distance relationships are really hard, but they aren't impossible. Good for you for not giving up because of distance! Not everyone can do that.

 

My Caregiver lives across the country (literally), and my Dominant lives in the South. They both visit me about three times a year, but it's obviously not ideal and the majority of our relationship is based over the phone and internet. 

 

We communicate our needs a lot to each other, because we're forced to. But being honest about your expectations and abilities is really important. I can't always answer my texts while I'm working or at school, and my partners need to know and respect this. We can't always do our scheduled date nights, but we have plans in place for when that happens. Using apps and technology to our advantage helps a lot. Apps like Couple and Avocado are great for long-distance relationships. Websites like Togethertube and Rabbit serve the same purpose. Use the tools around you.

 

And don't forget the importance of physical intimacy. Send handwritten letters in the mail. Do care packages when you have the money. Send flowers, or a pizza. (Both things you can do from anywhere!) Send a shirt with your scent on it. Send a stuffed animal that reminds you of them. Little, physical gestures to remind them that you're real, you're tangible, and you care matter so much more than you'd expect. 

You've gave me good ideas, thank you so much for your input! <3 That sounds like it'll help mend the pain of the distance waaay more. It keeps it yummy. 

[daddyslittlewaby]

I had a long-Distance relationship too. Try to make plans when he gets back, that way the time flows by a little faster. That's how it worked for me

We always do! He's coming back on my birthday, so at least there's that!   Thank you so much! 

[daddyslittlewaby]

My Daddy lives in Tennessee and I live in England... that's over 4,000 miles. The last time I saw Daddy irl was December 2015, but he is coming over at the start of October this year <3

 

It's hard sometimes, I miss him like crazy. But we Skype pretty much everyday. It's difficult to do little activities over Skype sometimes; we both have the same colouring book so we do that together sometimes, we read to each other, play heads up, hangman, tic tac toe.

 

But it's hard cos I miss him like crazy

Oh my god, I am so sorry! I can never imagine how hard it'll be to be away from daddy for so long! At least we're halfway through September, love!! He'll be very soon! :* One day that goes by is a day closer to him! Please post pictures when he gets to you <3

[IchigoHime]

Me and Daddy are long distance, we've not actually been physically together yet. He's coming to see me in October though. I live in Arizona and he lives in New York. We've been together for two years now and while it hasn't been the easiest, it's been the happiest and longest relationship I have ever had.

 

We message each other almost all day, just about every day. And it's almost always in dynamic. So we play around and send silly pictures and stuff. I share with him all my little things and anything I do. We Skype when I can and watch movies together. Or I'll face my fear and call him on the phone and talk until I'm too sleepy to make sense and he has to talk me into sleeping.

 

Constant contact helps, but we've built such a relationship to if I don't have internet access or whatever, we send each other letters and stuff and it works.

[Dumbledork'sPrincess]

Oh my god, I am so sorry! I can never imagine how hard it'll be to be away from daddy for so long! At least we're halfway through September, love!! He'll be very soon! :* One day that goes by is a day closer to him! Please post pictures when he gets to you <3

I will, this is the first picture we ever took together. I can't wait to see him again in 12 days!!!