Not feeling so little...

[BabyGiraffe]

Hi guys I kind of need your help.

About 2 maybe 3 weeks ago my very first daddy and I broke up.

I tried going about it as nice and kind as I possibly could. He made that very difficult. Resulting in a not so great ending.

He frequently checks my profile now. I don't like being on this site anymore because of it. I don't like at all that he's basically keeping tabs on me.

I'm a very anxious person and him doing this makes me so nervous and scared.

Which brings me to why I'm asking for help..

I haven't been able to get into little space since all this ): he made me feel so safe and small and cute. I don't feel that way anymore. I miss being little.

 

Can anybody suggest ways to help me get back into my little space?

No idea is a bad one I promise!

[Guest]

Maybe take a break for a bit (or delete this account and make a new one, that would not be easy for him to pick out its you) I know those are kind of shitty choices but it may be for the best.

 

I know right now I am in a really bad place mentally but bubble baths and alone time with my favorite music helps me a lot. Sometimes just writing out all your feelings and then crumbling up the paper and trashing it helps me 'let go' of the negative feelings

 

I hope you get some peace in little space soon

Edited September 15, 2016 by Kitteny kitten

[Dumbledork'sPrincess]

Watch your favourite Disney movie or show? Put on your favourite little clothes and music and just chill with your stuffies?

[Guest QueenJellybean]

My suggestion is to get back to your roots, and remember what makes /you/ a Little. Not what made you Little with your partner. Not what you think makes other people Little. What makes you feel smallest. 

 

A lot of solo Littles are completely successful, so while being Little on your own can be tough after a breakup, it's absolutely possible. Try to taking a long bubble bath. Buy yourself a new sippy cup/pacifier. Get dressed in clothing that make you feel cute, and do something that makes you happy. Color a picture just for yourself. Read a children's book. Watch a movie or show that reminds me of being a kid. Listen to music that makes you smile. 

 

It doesn't have to be traditionally Little things to do the trick. Just whatever it takes to make you remember why you love this lifestyle so much. 

 

Edit: Also, please remember to reach out to an admin or moderator if you feel like his behavior is harassing, or predatory. Thank you!

[Guest Littlepup]

He shouldnt be doing that

even if you want to be on good terms 

he needs to respect your space

 

I would block him

 

anyway I think the best thing to do is to fix what's making you stressed (like blocking him) because I know for me if people keep making me worry I won't be able to relax enough to be little.

bubble baths are a good idea, and putting on a quiet show like little bear, and going to the park to swing, or go look at toys and clothes at the store, I like to have a bowl of snacks and sippy cup while I do at home things

[Oliver]

Maybe take a break from this forum. Give him time to move on. Indulge real-life littleness and other ways to connect with people. By the time you come back, if he's still looking for you, it'll only be curiosity and it won't bother you so much anyway.

[BabyGiraffe]

I would block him

 

It's not possible to block people on here or it would have been the very first thing I did. But I like your ideas thank you very much (:

[BabyGiraffe]

You guys are all so sweet and have the best ideas. I will try them all and see what happens thank you guys so much