Give yourself time to grieve...

[Guest]

One thing I have noticed time and time again is that a lot of people end a relationship and right away they are wanting to jump into a new relationship. They do not give themselves time to come to terms with what happened (or what went wrong). They do t give themselves time to grieve their lose.

 

I am not one to pass judgment on others choices,but I do not think it's healthy to move on from daddy to daddy (or little to little) so quickly. Your heart will never fully be into your new relationship, till you sit down and think about what new you want from this relationship. I know the desire to feel loved, cared for and needed, but it's not fair to anyone (yourself or your new partner(s).)

 

Being on the rebound is not good for anyone involved. Only you will know when your ready to move on but you should always give yourself time to heal and grow.

[Antoinette]

Completely 100% agreed.

[Guest]

Completely 100% agreed.

thank ya

[Deimos420]

Personally I say while yes it's not smart if u meet a person you connect with deeply it may just happen ..yes Ofc each person. Needs time to grieve and some need alot .. but just cuz only been single few weeks or month isn't fair to just totally shut self off unless that's what u need to move on .. perhaps I'm biased by current situation and IDK how quick were talking lol

[Guest]

Personally I say while yes it's not smart if u meet a person you connect with deeply it may just happen ..yes Ofc each person. Needs time to grieve and some need alot .. but just cuz only been single few weeks or month isn't fair to just totally shut self off unless that's what u need to move on .. perhaps I'm biased by current situation and IDK how quick were talking lol

like I said 'only you will know when your ready to move on but you should give yourself time to heal or grow'

 

I also said I am not judging anyone's choics