I want a daddy but don't know how

[Littlecierra]

I want to get a daddy but I don't know how to go about that really well. I'm also not ready to be sexual and I feel like that will scare guys away...

[Guest Littlepup]

I've never really understood this because 

it was the extremely caring and loving nature of my relationship that urged me to feel like calling him Daddy and it was very much earned

so I can't imagine letting someone I don't feel as strong with be my Daddy

but the best advice I have for you is to stay up front about not wanting to be sexual.

It will scare some guys away.. the ones that just want sex. So that's kind of the point! :3 Don't worry about that.

Heck even my own bf/daddy was ready to stand by me as my partner even if i wasn't ready for sex. (although he didn't have to wait, I was ready because he was perfect for me, unlike my ex who i wouldn't have sex with)

So ta-da there are really wonderful people who will be your daddy and not have sex.

 

Just socialize and remember to be upfront about your requirements.

[Guest DaddyinOk]

Sex is not a requirement for a healthy relationship. If someone will not accept that you are not ready for sexual activity, then they are obviously not right for you. For a true daddy and a true little to find each other, they have to absolutely accept every aspect of each other

[Antoinette]

Don't actively search for a daddy, the wrong people will come into your life. Instead of wanting a daddy, want to better yourself - want to make yourself the best you that you could possibly be, want to be a better person than you were yesterday but even more so than all of this don't just want it, be self-starter, do it. 

 

Your s/o will find you and you them, don't worry. Concentrate on yourself, always, talk to people - build relationship opportunities but don't fling yourself into something because of a want or a loneliness. The best things come to those who wait - well, not always, but I think for this it's quite true [: 

[Guest Princessaj]

Hi, I am a new middle, new to DDlg, new to the DDlg forum and all of that is 1 month old.

In one month, I have

-read-reading tons and tons,

-researched more tons and tons,

-asked questions,

-read others questions,

-commented on others questions,

-filled out my "About Me" on my forum profile. Hint, Hint. If you don't write things people won't get to know you.

-made friends, had real quality exchanges (messages) with them, still have so many to get to and I will,

-met Daddies as friends and asked them lots of questions, got to know them and why they are Daddies.

-posted a personal ad here, looking for a Daddy and met a "Poser Daddy," Took personal ad off.

AND I AM STILL NOT READY FOR A DADDY! yes I know I am yelling.

 

Believe me when I say this with love, I am the second oldest little/middle on the forum and I have no patience.

Somehow, I am at peace with the process now. I wish you peace as well.Blessings!