DD/lg relationship and regular relationship...compatible?

[blueeyedangel93]

Hi I'm a little brat who is in a regular relationship. I obviously am quite frustrated because the man I'm with doesn't understand the DD/lg dynamic. I am not mad at him, this isn't for everyone. But he mentioned me finding a Daddy but I'm curious does anyone on here have both? If yes can it work?

[lilsnoopy]

Before reading keep in mind this is just my opinion and I know a lot of people would disagree. This is also probably not the answer you want; But I don't think it could work. As a brat you're like a puzzle piece that would fit best with a daddy dom. So if you went into that relationship while still in your current one, chances are you'll start to bond more with the daddy figure. Maybe it would work for a while but eventually you'll be his little girl and he'll be your daddy (who you love and trust more than anyone else because that type of relationship tends to be so intense emotionally and creates a really strong bond that isn't always found in regular relationships.) Also it might be hard to find a daddy who wants to share you. Really daddy doms, by nature, are very protective and possessive. It might actually hurt him to have to share you. Granted it might work out differently, that's just one way it can work out. Just I know my daddy dom could never ever share me, I'm his whole world. I just don't think with certain people's personalities it would work. Or over time a daddy would want more from you then a shared relationship with you. 

 

 

once again I'm not trying to bash anyone in that type of relationship, if it works for you that's great and I respect that. 

Edited September 13, 2016 by lilsnoopy

[blueeyedangel93]

Thank you. That helps a little. No it isn't what I wanted to hear but I have a feeling it really would get too complicated and emotionally I don't think it'll be worth the stress. Edited September 13, 2016 by blueeyedangel93

[little*girl*rosi]

I think if you all three were naturally polyamourous it might work, but it's quite hard to keep up two relationships. Also keep in mind, that you don't need a Daddy to be little. You could just have some alone little time without your significant other being involved Good Luck with whatever you're gonna do!

[Guest Pastel.babybat]

I imagine it would end up being really messy. Where would you draw the lines? How much time would you spend with each person? How much would you be willing to let go of one or the other when/if the time arises?

Better just stay with your SO or breakup if he really isn't making you happy. Also, maybe you could find a non sexual daddy (that would be a fatherly figure rather than a boyfriend). Not sure if it exists or fits the DDlg idea though...

Edited September 14, 2016 by Pastel.babybat

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Edited September 21, 2016 by Arya

[Dumbledork'sPrincess]

I met my Daddy while I was still with my bf. Daddy knew about my bf, but my bf didn't know about Daddy.

 

After Daddy and I were talking for about 3 months I broke up with my bf.

Daddy and I are still long distance, and I miss him like crazy. But I know I made the right decision.

 

If you think you'll bond really close to your Daddy it might cause you and your bf to break up

[babygirl702]

im in da same boat. i tried to introduce it to my bf and he rejected it. i never been so humiliated in my llife. idk if i can face him after this.