Help?

[LittleKittyAudri]

I'm trying to open up to my boyfriend that I'm a little, by acting as a little around him, but he just thinks that I'm being cute. I want to completely tell him about the DD/LG lifestyle, but I'm terrified to do so. Any advice on how to do it?

[Guest Prat]

 

This is the best I can do.

Edited September 13, 2016 by Praetorian

[Dragon Child]

I'd kind of dance around the topic for a while, and see if he catches on. I'd not just go spill it out all at once, I know some people will not act kindly towards it

[lilsnoopy]

This probably won't be the most helpful thing but when daddy an I first got together I acted little and he found it endearing but didn't really understand. He knew I was submissive and when trying to bring up names for him, he shot down daddy pretty hard, because he didn't understand it. I starting pointing out how childlike my personality is, how I sleep with stuffed animals, how I liked him being on skype at night until I fell asleep so I wasn't alone or scared. And I think he being on skype like that, seeing that possessive and caring trait in himself made him see the daddy side of himself. He loved to be called daddy now, or papa bear, or dada and is always looking for ways to take care of me. It came so natural to him. You can bring it up but this lifestyle isn't for everyone. Keep in mind that not every guy is meant to be a daddy dom, it has to be part of who they are. So try doing things that would bring out the caregiver in him; for example ask him to make you little food, or open a jar or can you can't or lay your head in his lap and try to take a nap. Hopefully that'll help him see how he views you and views himself around you so if he is a daddy dom he'll want to take care of you more and view you as his little girl. If not, that's all I got, sorry. hope this helped. 

[LittleKittyAudri]

This probably won't be the most helpful thing but when daddy an I first got together I acted little and he found it endearing but didn't really understand. He knew I was submissive and when trying to bring up names for him, he shot down daddy pretty hard, because he didn't understand it. I starting pointing out how childlike my personality is, how I sleep with stuffed animals, how I liked him being on skype at night until I fell asleep so I wasn't alone or scared. And I think he being on skype like that, seeing that possessive and caring trait in himself made him see the daddy side of himself. He loved to be called daddy now, or papa bear, or dada and is always looking for ways to take care of me. It came so natural to him. You can bring it up but this lifestyle isn't for everyone. Keep in mind that not every guy is meant to be a daddy dom, it has to be part of who they are. So try doing things that would bring out the caregiver in him; for example ask him to make you little food, or open a jar or can you can't or lay your head in his lap and try to take a nap. Hopefully that'll help him see how he views you and views himself around you so if he is a daddy dom he'll want to take care of you more and view you as his little girl. If not, that's all I got, sorry. hope this helped.

 

Thanks so much! I will definitely try some of these things!

[LittleKittyAudri]

This probably won't be the most helpful thing but when daddy an I first got together I acted little and he found it endearing but didn't really understand. He knew I was submissive and when trying to bring up names for him, he shot down daddy pretty hard, because he didn't understand it. I starting pointing out how childlike my personality is, how I sleep with stuffed animals, how I liked him being on skype at night until I fell asleep so I wasn't alone or scared. And I think he being on skype like that, seeing that possessive and caring trait in himself made him see the daddy side of himself. He loved to be called daddy now, or papa bear, or dada and is always looking for ways to take care of me. It came so natural to him. You can bring it up but this lifestyle isn't for everyone. Keep in mind that not every guy is meant to be a daddy dom, it has to be part of who they are. So try doing things that would bring out the caregiver in him; for example ask him to make you little food, or open a jar or can you can't or lay your head in his lap and try to take a nap. Hopefully that'll help him see how he views you and views himself around you so if he is a daddy dom he'll want to take care of you more and view you as his little girl. If not, that's all I got, sorry. hope this helped.

 

Thanks so much! I will definitely try some of these things!

[BabyGirl32015]

Surprisingly I didn't have to tell my Daddy. I danced around the topic for what felt like forever, slipped and called him Daddy, and was shocked to find that he was hoping I was a Little. There have been up's and downs like every other relationship that has ever existed, but I never had to deal with the "coming out" thing until I came out of the closet about my sexual orientation.

[Guest Littlepup]

for us it all happened naturally, I didn't even know that DD/lg was a thing, we had spoken about submissive and dominant personalities. I told him I like to be dominated and felt really safe and happy when I could be submissive to someone and not worry about being in control (which freaks me out and I tend to shut down sexually and emotionally) I also liked being a pet (not in a serious way we never did any hardcore pet play. I just like to wear tails and belong to him) so we had that going on which formed a good foundation for setting up caregiver and little. I started to get the urge to call him Daddy instead of Master because of the nature of our relationship and how caring he was to me. Even though I thought calling him Daddy was weird at first so I didn't say anything for a little while. I told him about my urge and he said I could call him Daddy and then I learned about DD/lg. Turns out I was being little without realizing it. I already had sippy cups and ate baby snacks and had too many stuffies and color with crayons, blow bubbles, etc.

 

Honestly I'd start out with a talk about whether he likes being in charge or be the boss because I ask my daddy those things just to hear him say yes   and tell him you're urge to call him Daddy, see what he says and then show him this thread you made so he knows what you've been up to.

[LittleKittyAudri]

for us it all happened naturally, I didn't even know that DD/lg was a thing, we had spoken about submissive and dominant personalities. I told him I like to be dominated and felt really safe and happy when I could be submissive to someone and not worry about being in control (which freaks me out and I tend to shut down sexually and emotionally) I also liked being a pet (not in a serious way we never did any hardcore pet play. I just like to wear tails and belong to him) so we had that going on which formed a good foundation for setting up caregiver and little. I started to get the urge to call him Daddy instead of Master because of the nature of our relationship and how caring he was to me. Even though I thought calling him Daddy was weird at first so I didn't say anything for a little while. I told him about my urge and he said I could call him Daddy and then I learned about DD/lg. Turns out I was being little without realizing it. I already had sippy cups and ate baby snacks and had too many stuffies and color with crayons, blow bubbles, etc.

 

Honestly I'd start out with a talk about whether he likes being in charge or be the boss because I ask my daddy those things just to hear him say yes   and tell him you're urge to call him Daddy, see what he says and then show him this thread you made so he knows what you've been up to.

Thanks so much!!

[littlelili]

 

This is the best I can do.

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[littlelili]

Now, being serious. Communication is the best option. Don't go like really deep in the topic at first glance, because it can be a little overwhelming. But try to give him hints about DDlg. About your submissive side, and about how you like him to take good care of you. If he is receptive to that, maybe you can go ahead and show him more stuff about the dynamic!!!

good luck hugs

[LittleKittyAudri]

Now, being serious. Communication is the best option. Don't go like really deep in the topic at first glance, because it can be a little overwhelming. But try to give him hints about DDlg. About your submissive side, and about how you like him to take good care of you. If he is receptive to that, maybe you can go ahead and show him more stuff about the dynamic!!!

good luck hugs

Thanks so much!