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Hey guys, I have a problem and I hope some of you have some suggestions for me. So, me and Daddy have been living together for 2 years with our cat. He works in IT at home, while I work as a waitress. In some aspects we are very similar (kinks, volunteering, same lifestyle...), while in other we couldn't be more different. For example, I'm an extrovert, he's an introvert. I like being around people, going out for long walks/hikes, getting lost in nature, shopping, travelling, so practically everything most of us princesses like to do. He on the other hand hates doing all of those. He likes programming, playing and studying electronics (arduino), photography, reading complex topics about different things on the internet, and practically spends all of his time, free and work, on the internet. The only activities we enjoy together is eating, sex, cuddling and playing with our cat, and sometimes watching movies or playing video games. Our interests are too different to enjoy them together. So, what I'm asking is if anybody has any suggestions of activities that both of us would enjoy? I'm all out of ideas and don't know where to look for new ones :(  :/:/ :cascdav.mjf.lhk.hI've already tryed standard hobbies, but now I'm looking for something new, that I never thought of. The only restriction are adrenaline things, due to our health problems. Thanks for any new ideas! :)

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i dont have very many ideas for you, im sorry, but you could do something semi public? something like going to a small park nearby, or maybe going swimming somewhere that isnt crowded. im a princess but im also introverted and i dont enjoy being around lots of people, so i know the basics of what hes feeling, and it can be difficult when youre friends with people that are more outgoing. you can certainly find middle ground, though. you can do other things around the house such as cooking or maybe gardening if you can do that in your own home or in a yard, maybe you can try dancing at home, just messing around and having fun! you could simply sit and have talks, cuddles, he could try doing your hair or maybe you could do his makeup if he would let you. you could do little fashion shows together, you could take turns reading to each other. i dont know how much this helps, but i hope you two can figure something out!!!
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Hi there, Let me see if I can be out of the box, but close to the cover.

 

He likes

Programming, I know this is relating to programming a website, but I morphed into something else relative.

-Start a blog together - pick a topic where he can be the professor and you the student. You ask the questions and he answers them.

-Create an online radio show together for free http://www.blogtalkradio.com/   - do as above...

 

Playing and studying electronics (arduino),

-Find and attend events having to do with arduino or games that you play. Here is a link to a listing in an arduino forum that can help. https://forum.arduino.cc/index.php?board=27.0

-Look for events around gaming that you can attend together. Gaming is so huge and there are tons of things to attend as gamers do like to get together IRL=In Real Life.

-Going local to  www.meetup.com I don't know where you live, but they are plentiful in most cities.

 

Photography, adding video here too

-Attend classes together or join a www.meetup.com on this topic.

-Plan a "photo shoot" date, often, make it a habit. Have him shoot you and you shoot him. Choose a single item, an apple, take an apple and shoot it in creative ways and places.

-Start a blog with your photo's, make a tumblr,

-Find websites that have photos that you like and see if the photographer is having a showing that you can attend.

-Start a www.youtube.com channel. Video, edit and post on a singular topic you want to be known for, a group of related subjects, your cat....so many ideas. Do it together.

-Network with members that are into this and find ways to interact with them.

 

Here is a little member that posted her video recently. https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12826-so-i-uploaded-a-video-to-youtube/

 

Here is a photographer that is a member of the forum that posted recently. https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12821-photography/

 

Reading complex topics about different things on the internet,

I suggest that you get him to talk to you about the topics so you can find things to do around them. Yes, this is "Daddy support" unless you are interested in the topic. Sometimes, its not all about you.

 

and practically spends all of his time, free and work, on the internet.

-Use the internet to get him off of it. That is what I was doing above. There are tons of significant others that are in the same situation as you. It's epidemic. For every topic/habit online there is an offline opportunity. You just have to look and find them. Google "How do I get my boyfriend/husband off the internet" and you will see thousands of entries. Best of luck to you both.

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