Daddy doesn't pay attention to me

[Guest LilSeffy]

I have an issueeee and I need help!! 

 

My Daddy wont pay attention to me or he'll go to sleep whenever I go into little space...I don't know if he doesnt want me little or if he's annoyed with me but it's kind of making me sad! Please help meeee 

 

[Antoinette]

The only you'll find out is by talking to him

[annemarie]

also that seems like a kind of rude thing to do. he doesn't sound like a good daddy just from that alone in my opinion :/ you deserve someone that will pay attention to, love, and respect you.

[Guest DaddyinOk]

I hate to see anyone be treated like that. A good Daddy should always treat his Little as a Princess, pay attention to her, and cherish her like the gift that she is to him.

[IchigoHime]

I second AnneMarie's statement. That's very rude, if he's upset with you he should at least tell you what is wrong. Then you can both work through it together. I think you should try and talk to him, ask him if you've done anything to upset him. 

[Guest LilSeffy]

I HAVE MORE OF AN ISSUEEEE

 

Now I found out that Daddy is paying more attention to girls at his work than me!!

I dont think he wants me anymore...

[BabyGirl32015]

After reading the post and the comments below it I had to think a bit before A. Completely sympathizing or B. becoming rude and bratty. Needed to take some time and review my options before I answered.

 

For one, you sound like you are in an LDR (Long Distance Relationship) and there may or may not be a timezone difference that makes the sleeping hours VS. time spent awake very different for the two of you. If this is the case, there's not much you can do about it, young adults and even middle aged adults have a hard time staying awake after about 10:30-11pm because a chemical in the brain called melatonin is released, thus making him sleepy. (If you want more on this topic feel free to message me, I'm no expert but I know quite a bit about sleep cycles and the brain)

 

Issue number two, Daddy becoming a little more friendly with other females in the workplace.

Sweetheart, if you're having such an issue with what your Daddy is doing TALK TO HIM! If you need reassurance ask for it. I know you might not get the answer you want but it never hurts to ask questions okay? For your sake and his just TALK TO HIM!

[Princess-P]

Are you even sure he's ignoring you? Is it possible he's just tired from working and your not respecting that and getting mad that you don't have his undivided attention?

 

How do you KNOW he's paying more attention to women at work? Does he stay late to avoid you? Does he tell you he's busy when he's not? Does he constantly text them when your around? Or are you just speculating because maybe he made a Facebook comment on some picture or something one time?

 

Honestly the way you have worded your posts is making you sound very needy. Daddy's need attention too. And they need unserstanding. Your 27 so I'm guessing he's around that age as well. Thats definetly old enough to know that nothing ever gets resolved without talking to the person you have the problem with. So let your boyfriend know that your upset, that your feeling insecure about his attention. And do it as an adult, do not start this conversation in a whiney little girl voice.

[Guest Littlepup]

Well, you're not happy

and he may not be happy

something is wrong

you have to ask for a talk, tell each other how you feel and find out if it's a misunderstanding or if you are not happy with each other.

 

it doesnt sound too good though.. honestly I wasn't aware of DD/lg with my first boyfriend but I always took issue with him going to sleep all the time and not having enough attention to give me. My current boyfriend has opened my eyes to what kind of person I should have been with all a long. We both like to stay awake at the time time, sleep together at night, keep each other as a top priority and really compatible interests and personalities.

If push comes to shove, you might need to realize that this Daddy is not good for you. There's other people out there everywhere and you dont have to stay with someone you're not happy being with.

[Guest Butterfly3]

I would always talk to your Daddy/Caregiver. I tend to always think this and he might be talking to other girls, but you gotta talk to him. Only he knows what's going on and you know what you're going through. As tough as it is at times, communication is key. People online might have their opinions and be helpful at times, but they don't know your Daddy. You know him, maybe not completely, so get to know him I gotta take my own advice too, haha

[Guest QueenJellybean]

communicate, especially when you don't want to.