So, I want a Daddy but not sexually :l

[lkm002387]

Alright guys, I'm kind of in a pickle. I want a daddy, but not on a physical level. I know it sounds crazy but hey, we're all a little mad right? Honestly, any suggestion is welcomed Thank you all so much and you all are appreciated.

[Guest Princessaj]

Hi there, not sure if you wanted girls to respond on this or only the guys?

Which ever way...I would be happy to help you write a personal ad if you want?

[Guest]

There is nothing crazy about that. Tons of people have amazing relationship with out anything sexual. Just be honest and up front and let the rest happen. You can even make a personal but make it clear (probably gonna need to bold the hell out of it cuz some people are kind of dumb and skip over reading details)

 

I wish you luck !

[Guest Prat]

There's nothing crazy about wanting a platonic Cgl relationship. 

[Needy4neediness]

There is nothing wrong with what you want and a real CG can care about you without sexual content as its mostly about trusting and caring

[Princess-P]

I wouldn't class someone who needs sex in a relationship as not a real CG. Sex is a big part for many people.

 

However, though it may take longer, there is absolutely someone who will be happy with a non sexual relationship.

 

Never settle and don't ever feel pressured to do something you don't want to do. And if you post an ad and meet someone that seems great but then changes their tune after a while do not be afraid to drop that bastard like a hot potato.

 

Take your time, meet the right person and until you do enjoy the friendly folks of the forum.

[Guest sirslittlecupcake]

That's complexly normal a lot of littles have relationships like that defiantly not weird

[Username01]

There are caregivers who want the same thing.

Most of the sexual fulfilment I get is mental with only a slight physical component.

[madeofcookiedough]

There is nothing wrong with wanting a Daddy who does everything a Daddy should do excluding the sexual aspects.

 

There are a lot of people, so you'll eventually get a Daddy who isn't interested in anything sexual.

 

You could also post ads in the dd/lg sub-reddits.

 

https://www.reddit.com/r/LITTLEPERSONALS/

 

https://www.reddit.com/r/LittlespacePersonals/

 

I hope you find your Daddy soon!

[pndab]

This doesn't sound crazy to me at all. I want the same thing and I can totally relate. It's not easy to find though.

[Pocky]

hiii1 (＾∇＾)

 

i agree~ 

 

there is something more intimate when the relationship is more focused on the emotional aspect rather than sexual ♡

Edited June 2, 2017 by Pocky

[Guest ☽ ᴍᴏɴᴏᴄᴇʀᴏs ☾]

It is not uncommon, I would like to have a caregiver and get to the sexual out much later in the relationship. I am demisexual and it costs me a lot to take the confidence and feel sexual attraction towards another person.I would like my caregiver to have patience with that aspect

[LittlePupRune]

My little and I actually don't have a sexual ddlg relationship at all. We have other sexual dynamics but ddlg is absolutely non-sexual for us.

[nevergrowup]

Being little for me is a non sexual thing.

I just want someone to care and look after me emotionally and sometimes physically when I cant do it myself.

 

For me I'm always big during sex. My little self would find it gross tbh.

[Daddy_Shaw]

I don't think there's anything wrong at all with wanting to separate sex and age-play. Purely from a man's perspective, it may be more difficult to find a guy who can also separate the two as well but there are definitely guys/girls out there who also want a non-sexual little in their life. I'd say just let your potential partners know what you're looking for and be selective who you open up to. 

[Guest EmTheDemiFairy]

I would love to have a nonsexual relationship with a caregiver as well. While being asexual does play a huge part in that, I don't think I would be into sexual CG/L relationships even if I was allosexual.