What do you do when Daddys working??

[PrincessSina]

Hi I'm pretty new at this but I was wondering what kind of things you do while your daddy/mommy/cg is at work.

Daddy and I don't live on the same house so its like I can't do things to serve him and I'm not starting school till October, so I'm pretty bored when,I cant talk to him

 

Any ideas to have fun while daddy is saving the world?

[Lt.SassyRed]

Well I have chores to do first...but I love to color...or read a book...get on chat on here...and crafts are fun too..

[Guest]

My daddy still will text me when he is at work, but I do my school stuff, clean , color and doodle little things for him and send him pictures of it.

[Trash Queen]

I have a full time job. So I'm making that money money. Living off of someone just isn't my bag.

[Spooky]

I have a full time job. So I'm making that money money. Living off of someone just isn't my bag.

I would first like to address this comment.

There are many people who are not able to work, they are NOT living off of someone, they can't work.

There are many people going to school, working isn't really an option for those taking difficult courses and wishing to stay focused.

 

My CG and I live together, he works full time and sometimes over time.

I work part time.

Despite that I still bring in more money than he does.

Appreciating that he does work harder than I do and these are special circumstances, I do what I can to make his life easier.

 

So a fair majority of my free time is spent cleaning, cooking and basically doing anything to make him happy!

When the less fun stuff is done I like to do some fun and cute crafts, take walks, colour, chat with friends, read, make blanket forts, think of fun things for us to do when he gets home, garden and think of cute ways to decorate our home.

 

[Trash Queen]

Wew. Well I wouldn't know what else to call not bringing in your own income to support one's self. Someone's footing the bill. I mean what's the PC term here? Alternative earning? Bacon Bringer's Baby?

 

Ain't trying to rustle any feathers. But I don't know what that socially correct term would be for not having a job or paying ones own bills. State sweetie? I'm just confused. I don't care. You do you, Booboo.

[MellyBoo19912015]

Ok so as someone who is not capable of working due to disability I find that quite offensive Red. Yes I admin here but I can sleep and rest as much as I like. That's the good thing about this. However yes I claim disability. Yes I live at home with my parents. Let me tell you though what happens for me daily. I have to have help showering, sometimes dressing. My hands don't always work grip wise so I have to have help with various tasks. Some days I'm just too tired to do much at all cause chronic pain is exhausting and guess what, I will sleep! And guess what I also study! Yes I study for a degree in Classical Studies which btw isn't for the faint hearted. I learn new theories, this year a new language, politics, architecture, customs, religion etc. So just because you work does not give you the right to act or feel superior. So I suggest you drop your attitude and either answer the young woman's question or go on to another thread.

[Trash Queen]

I don't understand how asking a genuine question is having an attitude. You all assumed I was making a statement in some superiority complex when I wasn't. I don't want to live off of someone, hence me having my job. I never said anything about anyone else. If you interpreted my words that way then got defensive when I asked a serious question, that only reflects on your own insecurities.

 

And honestly, I don't particularly care about the lives of others. You do you. I was speaking for myself. When my s/o works. I am working as well so we can have that money money. If you took that as a personal attack, then that's your interpretation, not my intent.

[Guest Princessaj]

I am excited to share because this question comes up a lot and I like

using my imagination to help in a little way, even though I am a middle.

 

I see it 2 ways, fun things to do for yourself and things to do for Daddy that actually help you too..

 

I have been making a little list of my own for when it is my turn to be the best middle girl a Daddy could have.

Some of these are an over all preparation to do fun things in the future.. Many of them are about making fun lists.

Keep in mind,all of this may depend on the rules you have agreed to.

 

1. Get to know him better IRL=In Real Life. What does he like, favorite foods, color, music, hobbies, sports,

books, movies, games,.....write a list of what you do know and what you don't know then ask him when you can.

He will like this because he gets to talk about himself and you are really being good because your are paying

him attention. This helps immensely when doing nice things for him in the future.

 

2. Prepare to Play dress up for him. find out what he likes you to wear. If he doesn't know, show him pictures.

Give him some choices of what you like to start him off. That might be rare as so many of them already have

an idea of what turns them on. Don't forget the hair and make-up styles too depending on how much

control you give him to choose. Planning this is fun for you and him.

 

3. Leave him sweet voice mails that he can listen to over and over. Not too often so you won't bother
him. Make it that you are not asking for something or that you miss him. like "these are the things

that you do that make me very happy to be your little, then give a short list.

 

4. Prepare for him a list of little ideas of how to make you feel good. This helps him not having to come up

with things when he is busy or tired.

 

5. Know when is it best to ask for things? Know when he is tired, busy, know the bad times...timing is magic.

 

6.  Know what kind of sex he likes and then do it without being told or asked.

 

7. If he doesn't know what to give you as gifts...start a gift list on a website so he can just go there without

having to ask or run around when he doesn't have time. Pick inexpensive items that he can bunched together.

 

8. If he gets sick, soften your needs and focus on making him feel better. They are such babies when they are ill.

Prepare for this by having a can of chicken soup in the cupboard, extra tissue...make a get well kit at the ready.

 

9. Make him feel like he is your HERO! Praise him and raise his confidence in being a Daddy. They need that.

Think of things, because you know him, that will make him feel that way. When you play games, let him win....

 

10. Listen! That means learn to be quiet. They need to talk, just to talk. They need to talk and they don't want

our advice or for us to solve a problem.

 

Hope this helps. Was fun to share. Ask me if you have any questions.

[PrincessSina]

Oh thanks to you girls! And I study and work at the familiar company and I don't have like an specific job there, they just call me when they need me!! Daddy is the boss in his company so he doesn't have much free time and sometimes I feel I'm in second place ☹ but we're working on it. So many cool ideas to do, and since I'm sick right now I can't do my chores, that's probably why I'm so bored but thanks I love this website

[princesschibi]

Chores,coloring, finding cute things online,taking care of my son(tho thats 24/7),looking for cute ideas to do with/for him. 

[Princess-P]

So usually when my Daddy is working I am too. We both work our asses off. And yes I fully support going out and working as much as you can and never letting someone else foot the bill as long as you are physically and mentally able. And I also believe being a student doesn't mean you can't ever work. Thousands of people go to school and work and get great grades and still live fulfilling lives.

 

Im glad to hear you do work and generally keep busy thats amazing, good for you. As far as when your Daddy is working And you do have down time... Spoil your self. I personally LOVE the rare times I get to be home alone. I sleep, I bath forever, I play video games, Binge watch TV shows, paint, sleep some more, eat every junk food I can think of. In bed. Pass out from chocolate coma... Wake up and repeat.

 

Seriously, pamper yourself with whatever makes you happy. Alone time sounds boring but treasure it now. Every little bit. And if your feeling sick, which sucks, just try to take care of yourself. Maybe make a fort or turn yourself into a blanket burrito. Color, watch movies, whatever. You can even send your Daddy selfies or get a doodle app and send him some rediculous pictures. Snap chat is super fun and cute too.

[littlelili]

I work full time. But I love to cook, bake and draw when I'm alone ^^

[Antoinette]

So, as I am a student and don't actually work myself (wow what a crime, pfft) I usually start my day at college when my daddy is sleeping and it ends when he starts his day at work (we are a LDR, he's American I'm British). So it is complicated but I usually just knock out when I get home so we can talk when he gets off work (I wake up at 11-ish) but even then I still have to wait for him so I'll usually read, text him, play video games, finish essays, general work and whatnot. Just anything that I am in the mood to do really [: I send him pictures of what I'm doing too - he likes that

 

And just to clarify to the people in the comments that are getting upset by other people. There is nothing wrong with working, there is nothing wrong with staying home (EVEN IF THERE ISN'T AN ACTUAL REASON) if you and your partner and financially stable and happy, who the Hell cares? Just do as you please.

Edited September 7, 2016 by xAntoinette

[milk_and_cookies]

I'm in a LDR with my daddy/boyfriend. When I wake up he is still at work with a few hours left to finish, but he always read my texts. I send him a lot of pictures, selfies, my art, other peoples art, things I like/dislike. I'm a student so I just have a few hours left before my classes start so that keeps me busy. When I have no classes I just read, draw, watch something with my stuffies and text my daddy while I patiently wait for him to finish.

[daddys_doll]

My daddy recently started to work from home (and I have work at home jobs, too, but haven't started yet), right now I mainly just play on the computer or meander around the mall that's like 3 minutes from our apartment. 

[prncsscs]

I text my friends on here, clean the house, draw pictures for him and make cutesy art things. I bug him a lot with spam texts, not cuz I wan'im to reply but cuz I'm a lil brat like that. I have chores I have to do so I do all those. I braid my hair, paint my nails, dance, watch movies, read shitty fanfiction. I make dinner about thirty minutes befors he gets off so he has food waiting for him when he gets home.

[PrincessSina]

ohhh I wish i could wait PATIENLY, but i just cant!! Instead of that i spam him with pics, texts and other stuff. Hes making me do some easy chores and art projects for him so i keep myself busy while hes working :blush: :blush: