vulnerable little

[Guest thequeenslittle]

I dont know what to do. I feel like as a little I open to my mommy in the most intense ways possible and it leaves me feeling so extremely vulnerable and sometimes even scared. I just want my mommy to comfort me and be gentle and loving with me. She is most of the time but sometimes mommy and I get in fights and I don't know what to do because it leaves me feeling extremely hurt alone and abandoned in those situations when we fight because I feel so vulnerable and open and weak as a little. I don't know how to talk to mommy about this. She always gets more hurt when I try. Please someone help its making me feel like I don't want to be a little anymore.

[Guest Moonpie]

I'm so sorry youre going through this. For any relationship communication is vital. She may feel upset for a while but keeping your emotions hidden only causes more problems for yourself and the relationship. Talk to each other, understand one another, although she may be a mommy she too may be feeling upset and its necessary that you talk and sort things out together.

[HeCallsMePrincess]

you need to communicate more outside little space. even in a cg relationship we're all adults and it's still important to nurture and develop your relationship on an equal level. sometimes, I think cg's need their littles to be big sometimes and be a partner.

[Guest Littlepup]

it sounds like your mommy is stressed

 

maybe do something special for her like have her go to a spa and when she's feeling better you can write a letter to her about your feelings 

 

and really get her to communicate with you, maybe have her write a letter so that it's less scary for you

 

she might be having feelings that you dont know about.. she might be really unhappy..  you didnt say why you were having fights, but if they seem like fights about nothing or little things, its a sign that you are not happy