I'm so new

[LittleXfreya]

So hubby and I have been talking and I have finally told him that I wanted to have a daddy and little relationship with him and surprisingly he agreed to be my daddy!!!! Needless to say I'm so excited!!!! We are doing our research but all I am seeing is what a daddy does for his little. What do littles do for daddy???

[princesschibi]

I'm still new to this as well but what I've seen and like doing is:

 

Adore your daddy

Do little things like coloring a page for him

Show him affection. Cuddle up next to him. Give him cute nose or cheek kisses.

Write him a note

Brighten up his day

[Guest ZenDD]

Some common things a little can do for her Daddy are:

 

sing and dance for Daddy

make him things

make him laugh

give him lots of hugs, kisses, and cuddles

tell him how much you love him

tell him how handsome he is

dress pretty for him

have a fashion show for him

let him adore you

ask him what he thinks about things

tell him what you think about things

send him lots of pictures of yourself

give him massages

 

I think you can figure out the sexual dynamic without suggestions. Suffice it to say; reward him, and you will be rewarded.

 

These are just a few, general, things. It all depends on what your Daddy likes and wants, and what you like to do. But only do things like this if you have a good Daddy, and if he makes you feel happy, smart, safe, proud, productive, important,  beautiful, cherished, and appreciated.

Edited September 5, 2016 by ZenDD

[Guest Princessaj]

So pleased that you are asking such an important basic question. Wonderful of you to step out of your

own little needs. I am new, a middle, without a Daddy and am such a people pleaser. I have been making

a little list of my own for when it is my turn to be the best middle girl a Daddy could have. Keep in mind,

all of this may depend on the rules you agree to.

 

1. Get to know him IRL=In Real Life. What does he like, favorite foods, color, music, hobbies, sports,

books, movies, games,......this helps immensely when doing nice things for him.

 

2. Play dress up for him. find out what he likes you to wear. If he doesn't know, show him pictures. Give

him some choices of what you like to start him off. That might be rare as so many of them already have

an idea of what turns them on. Don't forget the hair and make-up styles too depending on how much

control you give him to choose. They are so f?ck'n visual.

 

3. Leave him sweet voice mails that he can listen to over and over.

 

4. Give him a list of little ideas of how to make you feel good. This helps him not having to come up

with things when he is busy.

 

5. When is it best to ask for things? Know when he is tired, busy, know the bad times...timing is magic.

 

6.  What kind of sex he likes and then do it without being told or asked.

 

7. If he doesn't know what to give you as gifts...start a gift list on a website so he can just go there without

having to ask or run around when he doesn't have time. Pick inexpensive items that he can bunch together.

 

8. If he is sick, soften your needs and focus on making him feel better. They are such babies when they are ill.

 

9. Make him feel like he is your HERO! Praise him and raise his confidence in being a Daddy. They need that.

 

10. Listen! That means learn to be quiet. They need to talk, just to talk. They need to talk and they don't want

our advice or for us to solve a problem.

 

Hope this helps. Was fun to share. Ask me if you have any questions.

[Guest Prat]

I have a bunch of useful information on my tumblr on the subject and there is also a big post on the site which covers the same information, by Annemarie.

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12028-advice/?p=65801

Edited September 5, 2016 by Praetorian

[Kylittle-18]

OK so I'm very new at the ddlg to the point I am having trouble getting into little space can someone give me advice on what may help me my little age I know is 3-4 years

[HeCallsMePrincess]

as a little married to her Daddy, I think the most important thing I've learned is to appreciate him and everything he does for you/your family. it's important in all kinds of relationships, but I find that taking care of a Little, even if that little is your spouse seems to be emotionally taxing on a person.

[Guest sirslittlecupcake]

As a little I like to annoy my Daddy and color him pictures and bake things DIY things for him. It's hard being a Dom of anykind so I try to help in anyway I can