Scared&Confused

[Guest LittleLaurenJayne]

I need some advice, I've always had a daddy fetish but the one time I went into that life he took advantage, I was younger then but now my body is different I'm full of curves so I don't think a daddy would see me as their little girl. Also I'm scared to go back there but I feel like I'm jot being myself if I don't... Any advice?

[Guest]

Littles come in all sizes short and tall , skinny curvy chubby , it does not matter about what you look like on the outside its about being a little girl in your heart. Just be yourself and be happy

[Guest Officedad]

Be patient with the next daddy, communication is key, don't do anything you don't want to do, enjoy life and keep smiling.

[FawnKitten]

I'm very curvey and squishy but my boss still sees me as very small and delicate, I've also known quite a few littles who are bigger and it really doesn't matter, all that matters is that you find the right person!

 

If you find the right daddy and you both care about each other and talk about stuff, then it should all just fall into place! Best of luck to you <3

[Guest LittleLaurenJayne]

Thank you so much FawnKitten

[VirginiaDaddy]

It sounds like you had a bad daddy, but not all daddies are like that. Some are very nice and open to give lots of love. You need to understand your daddy really well, and what he's interested in, and you need to make sure that he knows what kind of daddy you want.  It's natural to be cautious with your next daddy, but don't make him pay for the sins of your last one.

 

As far as curvy, I can only speak to myself in that your size and shape aren't important. You will look little to your daddy when you are little. :-) 

[Guest Princessaj]

I am a new middle, new to the DDlg Lifestyle and for what I can find the oldest middle here with curves.

 

All that said, I too worry about what a Daddy might think about my curves=weight.

 

Think about it this way.

 

-There are Daddy's out there that are looking for exactly YOU. Be helpful and show them where you are so they don't miss you.

 

-There are Daddy's that are looking for someone else, help them, don't waste their and your time.

 

Me scared, yes. I took a chance, wanted what I wanted, made a mistake, reached out to friends here, learned a lesson, prayed and I am ok, just fine.

 

Guess what, my first DDlg encounter, OMG and in front of everyone here, thought "he" was a Daddy, he, who answered my

first personal ad. He was/is a Daddy Poser. He said he was a Daddy, claimed to be experienced, had already had 2 littles

and blah, blah, blah about their time together, was glad I was older and so many other compliments. Next came asking for

foot fetish pics, I gave him a few, then wanted phone sex, I did it once. Hmmmm, then my head spun around like the Exorcist,

it dawned on me that he never mentioned about me being in "middle space" and all the other wonderful things that the littles/

middles had shared that their Daddy does for them. Finally, when I texted him, after a whole weekend without a peep from him,

that I was "lonely and ignored." His response was "busy, with his son, no signal to text or call....and that I was complicated...

because I was/had bipolar depression, ADHD, CPTSD and anxiety." This all happened in a week and half.

 

Really? What was I thinking?

 

What did I do? Agreed that we weren't a match and let go.

 

I immediately

-reached out to the friends I made on the forum,

-listened to the feedback about the obvious and unreasonable things I wanted and did.

Things I did because I was new, needy in such a bloody hurry. That's the truth in real time. I then posted in my "status"

(please use that function of your profile, its amazing) to tell everyone, in brief, what had happened and about him in very few words.

Guess what? He was reading my status posts. He deleted his profile. Doesn't mean he is gone. He was put on notice that I

wasn't going to let him use me, that I was going to alert members of his bad behavior and protect others so it won't happen

to them.

 

I did the right thing. I took a chance, wanted what I wanted, made a mistake, reached out to friends here, learned a lesson, prayed and I am ok, just fine.

 

Always express when you need help, have questions and need/want support.

 

Keep getting educated, take chances, reach out to friends here, learn lessons and if you are a prayerful person, pray.

[Daddy's_little_monster]

I just want to say you're so so so wise! I Envy you

 

 

I am a new middle, new to the DDlg Lifestyle and for what I can find the oldest middle here with curves.

 

All that said, I too worry about what a Daddy might think about my curves=weight.

 

Think about it this way.

 

-There are Daddy's out there that are looking for exactly YOU. Be helpful and show them where you are so they don't miss you.

 

-There are Daddy's that are looking for someone else, help them, don't waste their and your time.

 

Me scared, yes. I took a chance, wanted what I wanted, made a mistake, reached out to friends here, learned a lesson, prayed and I am ok, just fine.

 

Guess what, my first DDlg encounter, OMG and in front of everyone here, thought "he" was a Daddy, he, who answered my

first personal ad. He was/is a Daddy Poser. He said he was a Daddy, claimed to be experienced, had already had 2 littles

and blah, blah, blah about their time together, was glad I was older and so many other compliments. Next came asking for

foot fetish pics, I gave him a few, then wanted phone sex, I did it once. Hmmmm, then my head spun around like the Exorcist,

it dawned on me that he never mentioned about me being in "middle space" and all the other wonderful things that the littles/

middles had shared that their Daddy does for them. Finally, when I texted him, after a whole weekend without a peep from him,

that I was "lonely and ignored." His response was "busy, with his son, no signal to text or call....and that I was complicated...

because I was/had bipolar depression, ADHD, CPTSD and anxiety." This all happened in a week and half.

 

Really? What was I thinking?

 

What did I do? Agreed that we weren't a match and let go.

 

I immediately

-reached out to the friends I made on the forum,

-listened to the feedback about the obvious and unreasonable things I wanted and did.

Things I did because I was new, needy in such a bloody hurry. That's the truth in real time. I then posted in my "status"

(please use that function of your profile, its amazing) to tell everyone, in brief, what had happened and about him in very few words.

Guess what? He was reading my status posts. He deleted his profile. Doesn't mean he is gone. He was put on notice that I

wasn't going to let him use me, that I was going to alert members of his bad behavior and protect others so it won't happen

to them.

 

I did the right thing. I took a chance, wanted what I wanted, made a mistake, reached out to friends here, learned a lesson, prayed and I am ok, just fine.

 

Always express when you need help, have questions and need/want support.

 

Keep getting educated, take chances, reach out to friends here, learn lessons and if you are a prayerful person, pray.

[Guest DaddyJoe90]

I'm new to this site id luv to show u wht it's like to be a daddy to their little girl. I fink u wud be perfect. I luv curves n wud luv 2 chat with u. Message me n we can swap info xx

[Guest DaddyJoe90]

Any1 know where LittleLaurenJayne has gone? I wanna find her. She seems perfect 2 be my little I wanna no where she is n get her b4 sum1 else does. As she got a diff profile or sumthin does any1 no? Gonna have to send a search party on ere to find her

[Guest Officedad]

She found her daddy and left the site.

[Guest DaddyJoe90]

Well this site just keeps getting shittier & shittier