A little advice? ... See what I did there? xD

[BlueEyedLittle]

Hey there all. I'm newer to the DD/lg fetish and I was wondering if maybe some of you more experienced littles can give me some advice~

 

I am not into the more "extreme" age-play but I wanted to find more ways of being a little without wearing diapers and all that stuff? No hate on that at all, just not for me. I like more of the gentle, caring control over D/s. Plus calling him Daddy is hot.   

 

My Daddy says I'm submissive and playfully bratty so I was wondering how I can kind of take advantage of that and maybe tips on how to be cutesy with it? I don't want to overly annoy Daddy and get a brutal punishment and be sad.

 

Any other tips?

 

One last question, I promise! 

 

What's it truly like being in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship which also is a DD/lg relationship?

 

 

Sorry if this is poorly written or somehow offends someone. I didn't know how to word this all correctly. Hope you all understand!

 

Thanks!

Edited August 31, 2016 by BlueEyedLittle

[Guest Prat]

Diapers and stuff is more of an ABDL thing than Cgl thing, don't worry about that .

[MilkyUsagi]

well take my example, I love cute stuff like disney dresses or cartoon stuff in general, cute backpacks and one piece pajamas but I act like an adult most of the time and just when I'm with my boyfriend I act instinctively as a child cause I feel safe with him. I love to color books and watch cartoons or eat into cute plates ect.. but I don't use pacis or diapers or extreme little stuff, everyone is different and that's ok, you're not forced to do anything. I was like this like.. since I was born? XD just I found that my nature and my relationships has common point with this little stuff so that's fine :3 I just wanna make friends and take inspirations :3

[BrandonCG1995]

Firstly, I see that you call it a "fetish". While I can't say that's necessarily wrong, please know that it can be so much more than just a fetish. It is a lifestyle!

 

You definitely don't need to wear diapers and stuff to be a little. Just do whatever you find comfortable.

 

You can try doing minor things such as drawing/coloring a picture for him, drinking from juice boxes or sleeping with a stuffy. It doesn't have to be too extreme right away. As long as you obey his rules and his treats you like a princess in return, it's fine.

 

For the last question. I am actually in a ddlg relationship that is actually my "boyfriend/girlfriend" relationship, and it's great. Like I said, ddlg can be a lifestyle and we treat it like so. I watch over her and care for her, and she loves me and makes she she pleases me right back. Yes there are some kinks here and there but it is very important to make sure it is overall built around love, trust and consistency. Just as you'd get with an actual father/daughter relationship and just like you'd get with a vanilla bf/gf relationship.

[Guest Littlepup]

I can't offer much of advice because i am new too... but 

I am also not into super baby stuff like diapers and I prefer to be more of a big girl and help daddy out. also I'm a puppy girl so that kind of changes the dynamic a little for me.

but I fell in love with my bf before i even realized i was little (though is painfully obvious looking back) we kind of just played out the roles naturally.. and recently I am now calling him Daddy, I am very happy and can express myself better. 

so I feel very lucky for having found the person I am truly compatible with. our DDlg relationship is just an extension of who we are, and how we've always been towards each other. 

 

and being little doesn't have special rules, it's just the way you are.. I like stuffies but I also like to not go overboard. I collect bugs and sticks and rocks and feathers and leaves, I like blowing bubbles and swinging and cookies with sprinkles, I do alot of little things, but every little is different. i think the most important thing about being little for me is that Daddy is #1, I love Daddy more than all the other little things combined. being little is how i open up my heart and show my bf how much I love him and need him.

[BlueEyedLittle]

Thanks for the replies everyone! It's helped me learn just a little bit more!