Just wondering if any other Little's have this.

[KittyT]

Hi, everyone!

 

I just wanted to ask everyone if they suffered from an eating disorder!

 

I tend to not eat for 1-2 days then binge eat the next few days. I tend to extend the days if something bad happens or I'm stressed.

 

I have midterm exams in a few weeks and I'm not prepared. I'm terrified to fail so I didn't eat for 4 days. My daddy made me eat today but I felt like vomiting afterwords. 

 

I just want the confirmation and support from other little's.

 

Sorry if this is a downer but I want to get this off my chest.

 

-Kitty <3 :3

[Big_daddy]

I'm not a little, but I do want to gather a little more information about you, if you don't mind.

When was the last time you got checked up by a doctor?   

[Guest]

i've struggled with an "eating disorder" in the past.... and sometimes still do. (i put quotes around it, because i myself do not think of what i do as an eating disorder, but other people call it that)

 

i also have suffered with anxiety and panic attacks - and your anxiety level could be making your tummy upset, so u felt like u were going to lose your foods!

 

 

do your best to prepare for your midterms each night... eat small things throughout the day... just get something in you every few hours. 

and once you do, just try to relax and breathe so you dont throw it up... deep breaths... lay down if needed

 

but you need to start studying for your midterms, that will help.

and i know from experience that when you've gone so many days without food, once u do get something in it - your tummy IS going to feel gross like you're going to be sick... so just try not to skip whole days. do you like yogurt? banana? strawberries? toast? those are things i eat to make sure i get something in me, even when i dont want to eat.

[JazziyBaby]

Hi Kitty!

Firstly I'm so sorry you suffer from an eating disorder....it sucks doesn't it!

I really hope you don't suffer too badly over the next few weeks, you need to energy and strength for your exams!

 

I've had an eating disorder since I was around 12/13 and I'm 22 now so I'm a bit of a professional haha

Mine is usually stress triggered too and it can be any kind of stress like bad or good...if that makes sense...for example if I'm very busy doing lots of fun things it will trigger me to not eat the same as if I was stressed by something bad happening.

 

Now I mostly just restrict how much I eat rather than what exactly I eat. So for like 3 days I will just eat a packet of crisps a day or one pot noodle etc a day etc....Id starve myself completely for a few days at a time if I could but I have to eat something each day to take my medication, you can't take it on an empty stomach.

 

I used to not eat all day then as soon as I was alone at night Id binge on all my favourite snacks then make myself sick but thankfully I don't do that anymore, it's been about a year since I last properly made myself sick. I still often get the urge to make myself sick after a big meal but I stop myself

 

My eating disorder stems from three things.....

The first is a sense of control. My mum was very ill both mentally and physically and I was her carer from 13 years old and I open felt like I had no control over what was happening in my life so controlling what and how much I ate made me feel more secure.

The second is the usual of not wanting to be overweight and see as fat.

The third is because I suffer from quite bad IBS and general digestive problems so when I eat I get extremely bloated which makes me look pregnant sometimes! Or I think it does anyway.... So when I don't eat I have a nice flat stomach and I feel comfortable and don't have stomach ache.

 

Anyway that's enough about me for now haha....

 

I'm more than happy for anyone to add me and chat about having an eating disorder, I'm a very open person and would love to share my experiences with others

 

Love and light

Jazz xxx

[~Lost_Little_Searching~]

I struggle with this too! Much like you, it is caused by stress or other emotional situations I'm dealing with. Though it is a terrible thing to do, I feel much better about myself and a lot prettier. It is a stuggle to eat but I encourage you to do so for the sake of your health and overall well-being!

[Johnny Hammersticks]

I think alot of caregivers face the issue of how to best help our littles with this issue, because its all to common. We just hope positive reinforcement and genuine concern and guidence in trying inquire about meals and healthy eating habits goes a long way. Because most caregivers would agree, i think, that it breaks our hearts to see our littles stressing about body image or eating habits when we adore you just the way you are.

[PrincessSacrifice]

I do something like this too! I also tend to have the times where if I'm going out I tend to not eat the day before I go and on the day and then just drink (when I'm not in little mode) but I can easily go days without eating. When I was in uni, I would rarely eat. If forced too, it'd be a bag of crisps or a chocolate bar or something. I've sort of gotten out of that since I've not been in uni, but I go back soon and I'm worried it will happen again

[princesschibi]

I struggle with not eating. But I'm not sure if its a disorder. I just don't get hungry til around 3pm or so and end up just having dinner. 

[KittyT]

Thank you all so much! It's really helpful and takes a weight of my chest.

I'm terrible sorry for all of you going through ED's yourself. I'm going to take Lilgirl's Adobe and eat small things during the day. If anyone needs a friend or someone to talk to, im here!

 

Thanks again

-Kitty <3 :3

[KittyT]

Big_Daddy: I've always hated going to doctors as the weigh me and i feel fat.

The last time was a few months ago after I binged 4 bars of chocolate.

[Big_daddy]

Big_Daddy: I've always hated going to doctors as the weigh me and i feel fat.

The last time was a few months ago after I binged 4 bars of chocolate.

 

 

You need to learn to embrace going to the doctor.  They are professional trained to make you healthy and give you good advice.  You are only hurting yourself by not learning how to like going to the doctor.

You might feel fat, when in fact you really aren't fat.   

Sometimes people get a false image of themself, it's common.

Not eating for days at a time is not healthy.  Not at all.

You need to be honest with the doctor and they can direct you on a good path for how to eat a good diet that will help you.

[Guest Littlepup]

I never considered myself to have any disorders.. 

but I do have problems with eating

 

Its very hard for me to eat when I am alone. 

 

In fact, near the beginning of my relationship with my Daddy I had just ended a long term relationship and I didn't have any other friends and so I ended up not eating enough and I completely lost my appetite from not eating and I lost all my energy and felt faint constantly and I had to make myself drink those nasty nutrition shakes just to get something in me because I didn't want to eat anything.

 

like I know I'm supposed to eat to feed my body but Daddy's at work and so I have only eating a cookie today

but I will make some food for him for when he's home and we always eat together.

 

Thankfully Daddy eats a ton and so even if I go all day without eating I still get plenty of food from eating with him. lol

 

oh I forgot to add.. I do lose my appetite very easily, anytime I feel strong emotion or at night I completely lose my appetite.

and sometimes especially in the mornings my stomach will suddenly be panging and I feel like I am going to throw up. sippy cup of milk is my best aid for that

Edited August 31, 2016 by Littlepup

[AngelPrincessGina]

I've had ED as long as I can remember. My mother starved me as punishment, but my brother and his friends would sneak me candy and sweets...ever since I see candy = love. I would live on sugar if I could. Since I met Daddy my sugar has been really restricted, and I have to ask permission to get any. The bad part tho is that he pretty much doesn't let me eat normally either, and doesn't encourage it...so most of the time I'm restricting to around 600 calories per day, and sometimes none at all like today. I hate the disorder so I understand how it feels!

[Big_daddy]

Your Daddy is not caring for you then, AngelPrincessGina.

Daddies are not doctors.

They are just guys that like the Daddy kink.

If you have a eating problem then go see a doctor as soon as possible and tell them what's going on.

[Princess Joe Joe]

Ana was my best friend from the age 15 to the age 21. I still relapse, I still fear food with every bone on my body. I still count calories, but my papa removed the scale from the house (doctors orders). If you ever want anyone to talk to, please don't be scared to message me. An eating disorder doesn't know boundaries, it is nothing to be ashamed about. Sometimes, I even feel triggered on DDlg tumblr sites because all the people are so dainty and pale.

[Pprincess]

[Big_daddy]

If you have trouble getting hungry then start exercising.  it will make you hungry.  Exercising is also good for the mind.

[HeCallsMePrincess]

i did for years. and then i got pregnant and i realized it wasn't about me anymore. not suggesting that, obviously. it's just what happened to me