Littles who are currently pregnant/advice

[kiara]

There are quite a few posts on the forum about how having a baby/children can affect the ddlg dynamic and I've noticed that there are a few littles at the moment who are pregnant. So firstly I was wondering who is currently pregnant or just had a baby here?

 

I am currently 5 and a half months pregnant and have struggled quite a bit with the fact that my body has changed so much (I used to be physically very little but have since put on weight EVERYWHERE, not just on my tummy) and also with the idea of not having as much alone time to be with Daddy. Don't get me wrong, Daddy and I are very excited with the prospect of becoming parents and I am really looking forward to being a Mummy but I also don't want us to get so lost in our new roles that we forget to make time for each other within the dynamic.

 

Also, I was told at my 13 week scan that we were having a boy and then I just went for my 21 week scan a few days ago and we were told 'woops, no, that's a little girl.' On the one hand I'm super delighted because I always wanted a little girl but on the other I had pictured having a little boy for quite a number of weeks and now have to get used to the fact that she is infact, a little girl.

 

Although my Daddy did say the other day 'how is my little princess' and I said 'oh she's fine, kicking a lot' thinking he meant the baby but he said 'no I meant you, youre still my princess' so then I felt better lol

[droogiesbrat]

I think that nothing will or has to change! Remember u were daddys girl first and he has enough love to share w another little girl who is a part of you and him! Take this as a time to show u how caring and loving and protective he really is ...me and my daddy want a baby and I get the whole I want daddy all to myself lol but havibgaa baby is a huge step and I wish you the best congrats

[Guest LordEmtheDinosaur!]

Hi kiara! Congratulations! 

It is hard to feel little when pregnant. Having a girl is harder too I think because when he says my little girl/princess etc you are going to get confused or jealous. Lots of people get disappointed over the baby's gender but there's always next time to get a boy! Daddy calls me his little girl/baby girl but he calls our daughter babybug and princess so I don't get confused what he means or jealous.

At first I was very jealous and decided not to be a little anymore because he has a real "little girl" and wouldn't need me anymore. I did it partly because I felt I wouldn't be a mother, more like a sister and that wasn't good because then I wouldn't be helping him or her! Also, I felt like she was stealing him away from me because well he was my Daddy first.

When she's born you won't have a lot of time together and for some time after but it is very possible to keep your dynamic alive.Just little things until you can have more time to do more things. Setting aside time every day is good and eventually you could keep adding on more time as she gets older. Sooner or later things will go back to "normal" and it'll be fine!