is it wrong?

[darktimberwolf2.0]

hi, im a rookie daddy, but still learning, is it weird for me not to be into seeing my little on a paci or diaper?, i love see her do childish thing like coloring and stuffies but the view of a pacifier/diaper isnt appealing to me. 

[Guest whatever]

No there's nothing wrong with that. Not every little will be into pacifiers or diapers, just like not every daddy will like it. Discuss it with your little, that's the best thing you can do really. Let her understand that it's not something you find appealing but also understand if she does enjoy it. 

[Michael]

Are you just not into it? Or does it make you uncomfortable when you see it?

 

Some daddies have a minimum little age that they're OK with. Maybe she's just too little for you. 

[Trash Queen]

I think it's good general advice to never feel ashamed of what does an doesn't do it for you. There is nothing wrong with your preferences. As long as you discuss these with your consenting partner, you could resolve most issues or make compromises.

 

Your preferences are never wrong. Acting upon them negatively is the only thing wrong you can do.

[Antoinette]

I think everyone in this community gets caught up on how they think they should play the caregiver or little role, when in reality there isn't a specific way to be a Daddy/Mommy or Little. Everybody is so different and that's what I love about this community - we're all so diverse and we all have different interests and dislikes. Don't get caught up on what a Daddy ''should'' like, as I say almost every day - just be yourself.

[Guest cottoncandyheart]

It's all about preference. My daddy likes me wearing dummies because it makes me happy and he thinks its cute but we both discussed that we wouldn't be comfortable if I wore a diaper. It's all about communication

[AngeI]

Everyone is different! I personally am not into the diaper/pacifier thing, so I can see where you're coming from.

[littlelili]

It is perfectly normal that you don't like that.

I'm not into diapers and pacis either... there is no rules on how to act when being a little, so it is ok if your little doesn't do diaper thing hehehe. Just what makes her happy and comfy in little space.

[Daddy 2021]

I'm the same with pacifiers and diapers. I don't like the look, and I want my little to be a little older in her play space.

[Daddy Custos]

Just as most littles have a little age or age range, so too do most Daddies have an age range they prefer their little to fall into.  But that doesn't mean that when the heart finds the right match we can't deviate from those parameters.  That being said, the DD/lg relationship, by definition, is still a relationship, and with any relationship there is always trust, compassion, and compromise.  It will be what you make it to be.  The effort you put in to the relationship will be returned tenfold.  What am I trying to say?  It is OK if you're not into it, as long as you share those feeling with your little and you work around it TOGETHER.  Make it a two way conversation.  Find out what things she isn't exactly thrilled about that you do or like.  Despite the mystic that a little thinks her Daddy is perfect, that is unrealistic in a relationship.  Trust me, having these discussions early on, or as I like to call it, break a few eggshells early, it will only lead to a much happier and healthier relationship.

Good Luck!

[HeCallsMePrincess]

it's just a preference, but should certainly be discussed up front with any Little or potential Little. perhaps that little age is just too young for you.

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I Guess Everyones into their own thing and Most people sorta New to DDLG  See Most things Such as  pacifiers and diapers Are Weird But !!! Does  it Make her Happy Having a pacifier and Wearing a diaper ?  i Dunno Most people  learn to understand their litttles Likes Wants & Needs  you no things that Comfort them help Set the Mood for little space

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

My daddy isn't into diapers either! The paci helps with my nighttime anxiety so he kinda just goes with it but it does nothing for him if it's not in the gag strap thing (we use a binky gag because my gag reflex is way too sensitive). Cgs are like snow flakes - they all are different and their differences make them beautiful and unique