Ever been ghosted on?

[Guest]

(I know we have a resource about this topic but nobody can comment on it. )

 

Have you ever been ghosted on or had someone fade off on you? Have you ever ghosted or faded off on someone ?

 

Please don't use anyone's name!

 

A had a so called daddy on here (back on my old account) add me and he seemed nice and talkative over messages. After a while I ended up adding him on kik and for the first two days it was fine and he talked to me normally (but ketp calling me let names ),after that he stopped talking for hours. I could see he logged on here though. So I asked what was going on and he took a long time to reply and said his phone was broken . Next day he started talking to me and asked me to color him a picture (which the dude was not my daddy just a friend so I was like was like what..? Plus my printer was acting up.) I thought it was weird he stopped talking then started up again so I asked if he fixed his phone and he was like its working right now. Told him my printer was misbehaving and bam all of a sudden his phone is broken again . I messaged him like if you don't wanna talk just say so. Nothing back ever. So I removed him.

 

Ended up delete the old account. When I made this one with in a few minutes of my account being made the same "daddy" who ghosted on me adds me. I was like so your phone still broken ? Funny how you can hop on here and add lots of littles but can say you don't wanna talk. Anddddd of course I get block cuz the dude is a fake and a coward.

 

 

Anyways what's your experience like ?

[annemarie]

i've never been ghosted by a daddy, but i've had plenty of bad experiences or similar experiences with men and i just wanted to say that yes, men like that are weak cowards. i'm sorry you had to go through that

[Guest]

i've never been ghosted by a daddy, but i've had plenty of bad experiences or similar experiences with men and i just wanted to say that yes, men like that are weak cowards. i'm sorry you had to go through that

it's all good ^^ I was not really upset by it more like lmao really you again..?

 

But yeah it sucks and its really unfair to just up and take off on someone. Like at least say something.

[annemarie]

it's all good ^^ I was not really upset by it more like lmao really you again..?

 

But yeah it sucks and its really unfair to just up and take off on someone. Like at least say something.

 

honestly i wish people who ghosted got banned. clearly they're not contributing to the community, they're causing others pain, and there's no repercussions. like if you're going to treat someone like that, you shouldn't be on a website that's about love and nurturing jfc

[Guest]

honestly i wish people who ghosted got banned. clearly they're not contributing to the community, they're causing others pain, and there's no repercussions. like if you're going to treat someone like that, you shouldn't be on a website that's about love and nurturing jfc

it would probably be too hard to track and take care of tbh. (Like in my case the dude did so over Kik and the staff can't do much about it.) But yeah it would be nice if people who did such harm to others did get banned

[Guest Coyote420]

This is the internet, you won't find a place online where there aren't people like that. This site is still relatively good in that aspect. Guys like that literally add every little on here.

 

I assume he hasn't made one post or tried to be active on the forum, but only adds random littles. You should learn to be a better judge of character, and the fact that he called you pet names is a no-no in my book. Pet names are something for someone you are really close to, not someone you just started talking to, that's a red flag right there. 

 

Truth is he probably got what he wanted from some other little and then just got bored with you and decided to keep you on ''stand by'' for when he gets bored or his other things fail, which is horrible.

 

I have been ghosted like that as well (not here, not by a girl I like, but just ppl I talked to for  a while, but they got tired of me I guesse), but I have learned from it , that's why I'm saying all this. 

[Guest]

This is the internet, you won't find a place online where there aren't people like that. This site is still relatively good in that aspect. Guys like that literally add every little on here.

 

I assume he hasn't made one post or tried to be active on the forum, but only adds random littles. You should learn to be a better judge of character, and the fact that he called you pet names is a no-no in my book. Pet names are something for someone you are really close to, not someone you just started talking to, that's a red flag right there.

 

Truth is he probably got what he wanted from some other little and then just got bored with you and decided to keep you on ''stand by'' for when he gets bored or his other things fail, which is horrible.

 

I have been ghosted like that as well (not here, not by a girl I like, but just ppl I talked to for a while, but they got tired of me I guesse), but I have learned from it , that's why I'm saying all this.

 

after him I learned pretty fast what the red flags are around here and what to look out for and yeah other then his personal he made no other post (last I saw ) but had over three pages of girls added. I guess he got bored cuz I was like nope here for friends. I am taken. So he was onto the next person.

 

I just laughed when he added me again on this account. When I was like so your phone still broken he was like who are you. Made me wonder how many other littles he lied to like that. Then he blocked me. Oh well live and learn.

I know better now

No one should feel like they are the back up plan . That's pretty shitty.

Edited August 27, 2016 by Arya

[Guest Coyote420]

after him I learned pretty fast what the red flags are around here and what to look out for and yeah other then his personal he made no other post (last I saw ) but had over three pages of girls added. I guess he got bored cuz I was like nope here for friends. I am taken. So he was onto the next person.

 

I just laughed when he added me again on this account. When I was like so your phone still broken he was like who are you. Made me wonder how many other littles he lied to like that. Then he blocked me. Oh well live and learn.

I know better now

No one should feel like they are the back up plan . That's pretty shitty.

 

Yeah, glad you learned from that, you seem like a nice girl. 

 

And yep, being a backup plan sucks,I wish that for noone

[Guest]

Yeah, glad you learned from that, you seem like a nice girl. 

 

And yep, being a backup plan sucks,I wish that for noone

well I do my best to be nice , I feel like a p.o.s atm but eh.

 

And yeah its not cool to do that to someone at all.

[Guest Coyote420]

well I do my best to be nice , I feel like a p.o.s atm but eh.

 

And yeah its not cool to do that to someone at all.

 

Ohh, why so? If you wanna talk about it feel free to pm me

[Guest]

Ohh, why so? If you wanna talk about it feel free to pm me

okay I will pm you now

[Antoinette]

I've never heard this term before, I like it - it's spooky ;o

But yes, it has happened a plethora of times to me. With friends, even with a guy I consider a brother. But I don't know if it entirely counts because we always (my brother and I) end up talking again.

I was in a relationship where we drifted apart and stopped talking completely one day. I remember I had got my first ever Walking Dead comic and I told him how happy I was and he never replied. We just stopped talking after that, it was three days after our one year anniversary and I wasn't even sad - to be honest I felt freed, this might be a different experience from a lot of people but the guy and I weren't intellectually on the same page (he was stupid by a longshot, we just didn't see eye to eye), he was more interested in a gaming YouTube channel and it consumed him, he forgot about me - the sexual aspect of our relationship died way before he left. But yea, I finally felt like I could move on. Which was something I couldn't do when he messaged me back, I always felt obliged to message him, to stay with him - but when he 'ghosted' it was like a part of me that I didn't want to keep hold of anymore ghosted with him.

So there's a positive (?) 'ghosting' experience for ya.

[Guest]

I've never heard this term before, I like it - it's spooky ;o

But yes, it has happened a plethora of times to me. With friends, even with a guy I consider a brother. But I don't know if it entirely counts because we always (my brother and I) end up talking again.

I was in a relationship where we drifted apart and stopped talking completely one day. I remember I had got my first ever Walking Dead comic and I told him how happy I was and he never replied. We just stopped talking after that, it was three days after our one year anniversary and I wasn't even sad - to be honest I felt freed, this might be a different experience from a lot of people but the guy and I weren't intellectually on the same page (he was stupid by a longshot, we just didn't see eye to eye), he was more interested in a gaming YouTube channel and it consumed him, he forgot about me - the sexual aspect of our relationship died way before he left. But yea, I finally felt like I could move on. Which was something I couldn't do when he messaged me back, I always felt obliged to message him, to stay with him - but when he 'ghosted' it was like a part of me that I didn't want to keep hold of anymore ghosted with him.

So there's a positive (?) 'ghosting' experience for ya.

if you feel it was a good thing then yes I am sure there is. It's always good to get out of a negative relationship. And I guess its not as hard when the other person wants to poof. I am glad it worked out well for you in the end!

[Trash Queen]

It's most communities that involve relationships. Some people collect as many at once and let the less-preferred ones taper off. It sucks, but don't take it too personally. Sometimes people just clash.

[littlelili]

It happened to me... I still wonder what happened. o___o and it TOTALLY SUCKS.

[dawn]

Lol yep once so far, which i hope won't happen again, because the person was genuinely really nice and interesting. Would've been great to be friends at least but oh well.

[LilMocha]

This happened to me recently! I met someone and over the course of getting to know each other we discovered we both liked DD/LG. We started chatting more, I thought we were getting close but I wasn't comfortable with the direction things were going and how fast it was all happening.

 

We went from talking all the time, to a few messages a day and now nothing. Its still pretty fresh for me and it sort of hurts, I kind of feel like maybe I wasn't good enough or something. I'm trying to stay positive about it though! Now I can explore my Little side more atleast.