Guest pumpkinpatchPrincess Posted August 26, 2016 Report Posted August 26, 2016 (edited) Deleted. Edited August 29, 2016 by mjfivedollars
aj_21 Posted August 26, 2016 Report Posted August 26, 2016 (edited) How long have you been together? You said he wasnt in the dynamic before you so maybe he is still trying to figure out what he is and isnt into hon. Maybe he isnt into ABDL or usnt sure but doesn't want to hurt you by outright telling you that. You wont know for sure unless you sit down and tell him exactly how you feel and how his actions/reactions are making you feel. Ask him how he feels about it and really watch him and listen. Its really the only way you will know for sure. It may feel right for you but if its all new to him he may be struggling to understand it. If he isnt into it than have a talk about what he is into and what he can do. Distance and work may be contributing factors to his behaviour. Exhaustion and stress do take their toll. Open honest discussion hon. I hope it works out xx Edited August 26, 2016 by aj_21
Antoinette Posted August 26, 2016 Report Posted August 26, 2016 Honestly I see this is just a lack of communication. You two seem like you are in a good relationship but with him working so much I think it's gotten you stressed/upset and he's probably feeling a bit stressed too. With the diaper thing I'm sure if you mention that it means a lot to you for him to engage then he will, but also make sure it doesn't make him feel uncomfortable. Everybody has different boundaries and that's okay. I see this as just a need for an open discussion and maybe that will make things better. Try to plan a nice day for when he can get time off work and maybe during that day you can introduce him to the ABDL side of things, or even just a day to talk and to get things off your chest.
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