i need a daddy...

[wittlebabygirl131]

my daddy recently left me.. and idk how to find a new one... can someone help me?

 

i asked a question i don't want any answers like you don't need one and stuff, i asked a question and only want answers for this question only no others please.. i said recently witch to be exact he left 3 months ago. and it was a not safe relationship it was almost abusive in a bad way.

Edited August 25, 2016 by wittlebabygirl131

[Guest weeniehutjr]

Try posting in the Personals section!

[Guest ZenDD]

I'm sorry you're going through a rough time. It's never easy. Honestly, though, I believe you should take some time to get over the one you just lost before you seek another, otherwise, you're just replacing him, and the person you're using to replace him with won't really have a chance to form the kind of bond you both would need to form a strong, fruitful, relationship. 

 

I know it's hard to be alone, but it's important for littles to know how to nurture their own psyche, because their caregivers can't always be around, even though they want to. Take the positive you've learned from your previous caregiver/s, and apply it to yourself. Make sure you eat, make sure you drink lots of water, try to sleep. Color, draw, dance, sing, play, whatever your little needs to do. And talk to others here. There's support if you seek it out and you have. It's great that you've done that. Stay strong. Littles are strong. Reach for it. Keep playing. Keep a dream journal. You'll know when you're ready to seek a new caregiver. You won't be alone forever. You can do it.

Edited August 24, 2016 by ZenDaddy

[LoralieHaze]

Let me stop you right there and say that no one needs a daddy, just as no one needs a little. Being in a DDlg relationship is neither an inherent right nor a requirement for living. 

 

If you want to find a partner, a good one at least, this is not the way to do it. Not only because this is the wrong section, but because you're not even remotely ready for that. As mentioned above, you need to take some time to yourself and not jump into another relationship as soon as possible.

 

If anyone who sees this post contacts you wanting to be your daddy because of it, they are more than likely going to prey on your vulnerability and naivete. If you want to take them up on their offer, that's your own business, but I would strongly advise against it.

[Daddymasterdevilking]

I'm looking for a little and if you still need a daddy I would love to be your daddy but it's up to you on if you are ready for a daddy ok